I wish to point out somethings;
1) most of the your guys; this is their first time & have only been with you & your vagina, so they have nothing to compair it to, (unless it their sister's)
2) most of the time, your vagina area in the dark or not in a bright light, so the guys really can't see it to say anything anyways.
3) keep yourself in the dark, and have them enjoy your vagina's feel,smells, and taste, but give them some help, it is always needed at first.
4) and oh stop compairing every other girls to yours, because you can't change it (or at least without a lot of money and a great plastic surgeron..)
it is just fine from the sight of the breasts anyways.
I can't remember details about my first girlfriend's vagina, except that I enjoyed it a lot..... too many years ago to say....LOL ROTF LSITS
(long stare in to space)
Happy new school year to all!!
RT
If not, I think you should read these other posts.
https://www.steadyhealth.com/Labiaplasty_Nightmare_t112049.html
I'm not trying to say this would happen to you. When something negative is mentioned on a site like this it seems to attract a lot of similar posts. However I do think it's worth reading.
I'm a male in my 60s now and never in my life have I heard any of my friends say anything negative about large labia, or any p***y for that matter. Well maybe about one that wasn't clean. I have loved every vertical smile I've had the pleasure of tasting and loving. Large lips are fun to play with and nibble on and all the girls I've had the pleasure of knowing loved having me do it. Sex with your lover is supposed to be fun and the ultimate pleasure for both of you. Lighten up and enjoy it. It doesn't sound like your husband dislikes your lips so why should you?
I hope you will let us know what you decided and how it works out for you.
If you did/do have them trimmed and you don't have similar problems or any problems, I think it would be great to hear about it. It would be nice to hear some contradictory testimony to balance those negative posts.
The fact that I have large labia used to really bother me when I started highschool. I personally think that all healthy labia are beautiful, but I see a lot of women reassuring other women that men will love it, which is fine, but I think it's healthier to accept yourself as you are and know without reassurance that you and your lips are beautiful!
i agree, the only time you need to address this issue is when you have discomfort, if not don't worry, just enjoy that your healthy
if you have or find a partner that loves you for who you are, live life and enjoy the uniqueness of each other
we all have unique genitals, no two are the same, focus on the person, not just the parts.
just my two cents (jm2c)
I prefer large labia over small labia. Young girls have small labia, mature women have large labia - that's how I see it. Very sexy, feels like you are with a woman and not a little girl. Same goes for hairy p***y - looks great. In fact my perfect girl would have large labia(minora and majora) along with natural hairy p***y.
i have had girls with large labia and i find it o.k.a bit more to play wiyh