Dear Thanks for reply.....can you tell will it effect fertility of male???....Please reply
No way it will affect the fertility, as this problem has no interconnection with sperm fertility. The prostate are pumping normally only the delivery method is causing mild obstructions. But if one get over conscious and paranoid about this ordeal and starts avoiding sexual pleasures then certainly it will affect the fertility, that too in long run.
Like exact location of a sprain or pull in muscles cant be pin pointed by any medical equipment in the world. Still the sprains heal.
Just believe everything is normal and many people are going through it. If this was anything serious many doctors would have replied to question scattered all over the internet, discussing this problem and they may have been clearly mentioned the cause of this weird issue. Its minor so no one cares to answer.
i'm glad to hear it's not just me that has this problem, not that i would want anyone else to go through this cos believe me i have suffered a lot and for over 2 and a half years now, without a solution, but its good to hear i'm not the only person in the world with this strange condition, its really difficult to explain to anyone too, urologists seem puzzled, i've had courses of antibiotics, mri scans, blood tests, and still no wiser, i tried pelvic floor exercises and they made my erections painful, if anyone has had success fixing this condition, please tell me how you did it. regard
Its just muscles playing the tricks and is normal. Many people are going thru this mysterious ailment which is not an ailment. Its a behaviour of muscles. So don't bother much gradually one day you will forget this issue.
This is a rather complicated issue on an old thread, I am replying in the hope that my experience can help others.
I masturbated a lot when I was young, even before I had the ability to produce semen. I loved the feeling, but I always felt like something was missing. Sometimes it felt like the release of pressure from peeing, others like I was being drained of energy and happiness leaving me a little grumpy, sometimes my whole body would contract in waves, sometimes just my PC muscle would contract. I honestly just wanted to ejaculate regardless if the process felt good or not.
The first girlfriend I had that would touch my penis came along around the age of 14. She wouldn’t have sex with me but she would give me a hand job whenever I asked bless her soul. It wasn’t much different than me doing it myself, but the sensation of someone else touching me make the experience far superior. After seeing her for a while, family circumstances worsened to the point to where I was being sent off over a thousand miles away essentially ending our relationship. One of our final nights together I got the best hand job of my life because the orgasm came with the feeling of connection, love and pleasure. This release of oxytocin and serotonin must be what real sex feels like! Except, as it turns out, sex never really felt as good.
Fast forward a few decades, multiple dysfunctional relationships and a life of poor diet heath and stagnation and all I get with my ejaculations is a feeling slightly better than pissing along with the energy drain. Life became pretty unfulfilling, I would watch porn, jack off a lot, and sex disappeared from my marriage… normal getting old sh*t. Then I started smoking lots of weed! That would give me the energy drain feeling along with bouts of ecstasy. Masturbation took second stage, but I started trying to improve my life. Had a brief affair, but the stress it caused cause my health to spiral downwards for years. I started trying to eat healthy and changed all negative life patterns except the weed and the stress. No way to avoid the stress, no way to cope with the stress without the weed.
After years of changes, cutting out meat, processed foods, sugar, only ate organic, never ate out, quit all stimulants, fluoridated anything, quit drinking/smoking, started to exercise… the list goes on and on the fatigue from the obsession with draining my energy wouldn’t subside. I quit masturbating, and when I was just too turned on to contain myself I would just cum directly in my mouth to try to save a much of the energy as I could. Throughout this I was seeing a naturopath, getting regular blood tests, and using supplements to fix my various deficiencies including severe anemia. Eventually I decided to quit smoking weed.
With everything else I had done, and being off the weed for over a month, even though our biosphere is on the verge of collapse, the government is completely corrupt, my marriage still sucks and my kids are crazy as f**k… Life didn’t suck anymore! Then I came across something that tipped the scales. I started drinking a few cups of Tulsi tea every day. My testosterone levels increased, my sperm count went down, my prostate shrank a bit and I had to urinate frequently. I started to realize how good it felt to urinate and began to develop a ritual while peeing. I would just sit there at the edge of having to pee and pulse my PC muscle letting just little bits of urine out every time I had to go and the sensation would get me rock hard and give me that pleasure I was so desperately looking for.
So now my energy levels are returning to normal, I’m not depleting my energy anymore, I’m generally happy and healthy and all I need now is to find that special someone that I can connect with to bring that feeling of connection and love into sex and the full body tantric orgasm is sure to follow.
TLDR: Eat healthy, get off the fluoride, exercise, check for vitamin deficiencies, stop energy draining activities, reconnect with your inner voice and you’ll be able to produce oxytocin and serotonin in abundance again.
I used to drink I stopped doing so.
PIANO