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My Grandson came to visit for the weekend and I caught him masterbating under the covers after I put him to bed. Could anyone tell me if this is normal for his age or has someone shown him how to do this.

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Hi,
i know that for us adults sometimes it gets somewhat shocking when we discover our kids doing sexual things, even at this young age. And my first thought also was "did someone show him how to do this?". But, no, the fact is that kids will sooner or later figure out all by themselves that touching certain parts is pleasurable and they simply don't see nothing wrong with that. And, the truth is, this is just a normal thing that happens, but, still, I think that it's always better to try to talk to the child about what happened and try to explain, at least at some level that the kid would understand. That way you can be sure that he is getting the information from you and not from somebody you don't know and either way, school, his friends and other activities, will very soon take over his interests. Not that he will completely grow out of this phase, it's just a normal thing all people do.
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I would say it is normal I sarted masterbating when I was 5 too. Also I would say that no one had shown him. I think he tuched himself and it felt good so he started masterbating I know that's how I started. I also asked my freinds and they said that that's how they started. So just let him masterbate as much as he wants and hewil be in a better mood.
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DEAR MOM,do not worry ,100% of all boys in the world rub their penis,is totally normal,just trying to feel good,the body has nerves.....a boy cannot physically masturbate until age 11 ,sometimes 12 ,or even 13...this is a discharge of semen,which squirts out called ejaculation and is also done by all boys and is normal.Now many times a boy can become obsessed with handling his penis TOO MUCH...or masturbating WAY TO OFTEN  this is caused by anxiety caused by negative massages about his body parts being nasty or evil,,,,so be sure to start at a very early age to tell him that his body is beautiful and acceptable.you see,kids just naturally like to be naked as much as possible.......many families give a child the respect to choose if they wish to sleep nude,or be nude in the privacy of home...that guards against anxiety,and makes them feel accepted and happy.

 

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"A boy cannot physically masturbate until age 11..." Nonsense. If you mean that most boys do not ejaculate earlier than that, well, sure, but so what? A tiny lad (or lassie) can masturbate joyfully and powerfully, reaching a full orgasm without ejaculations. Some authorities (especially Kinsey) assert that prepubescent boys are more capable of multiple orgasms than older boys, perhaps because they don't have to manufacture new sperms to replace the ones just sent on their way. Preschoolers hump their mats during naptime; babies have been seen enjoying their diapers and apparently reaching orgasm; ultrasound scans have revealed fetuses both male and female rubbing on convenient nubs of their surroundings. The earlier they start the longer they have to enjoy themselves.
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Maybe he just had an interest I have some Friends who have been interested in girls and sexual stuff before they hit age 4 or 5.
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My Aut. Bro does it all the time its normal.

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