I have masterbated for hours or until I got tennis elbow and I have never reached an orgasm. What toys can I use to stimulate the clit to orgasm. I am very sexually tense and in need. :'(
The best solution for you is your boyfriend
Please don't do this at all!
well to be honest with you...you would have to explain what you are doing because you have to be doing something wrong. it's mental and physical. if you can imagine in your head the sexiest night of passion you have ever had or never had and just keep playing it over and over in your head then you should be able to bring yourself to climax. you have to romance yourself. you can't just finger yourself and expect the physical to take over and just happen. you have to help it along. light candles, play music, or just go into your own mind. just imagine yourself being a sex slave or a dominatrix what ever turns you on and keep playing it over and over til you get to your climax. you don't really need toys...if you can't get it with your own hands then i don't see how you can get it at all even with a toy. it's still the mental block stopping you is what it sounds like, hope this helps