Please help-- I'm a 17 year old girl, and my boyfriend can't get me to orgasm. I've never been one to masturbate, and can't seem to find my clit. It's embarrassing and sad...not to mention the fact that I've never had an orgasm before and my boyfriend feels really dismayed that he can't get me get me to that point. I really want my first orgasm to be with him, so I don't want to make it happen by myself yet. Ive tried using a mirror to find my clit, but I can't see it, and when my boyfriend rubs the clit area, or even goes down on me, there really isn't much sexual stimulation or arousal at all....is something wrong with me? We have been looking at vibrators to use, but otherwise I'm at a dead end.....any helpful suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks.
See the mirror, run your finger all over your p***y very slowly for few minutes & you should be able to identify. It is not something very secretive, all you have to do is identify the sensation. Hopefully you are opening & trying.