Hey. i'm 13, and I want to know how to masturbate efficiently. I mean, sure I've been masturbating on and off since about 9/10. I rub/tease my clit and sometimes penetrate with pens/fingers but I get really turned on and my hips buck and then the feeling goes.WHY? I can't get any toys or anything. I wanna know how/what gets you off, and if possible step by step instructions. Serious responses only... x
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Have you tried a carrot or a cucumber?You can also use the showerhead on your clit.I could have written much,but feel free to pm me.There are so many ways a girl can be pleasured:)
Well first of all, everyone needs different things to stimulate themselves. I know what you mean by "I get really turned on and my hips buck and then the feeling goes." This happens to me sometimes, I'll feel like I'm really close and then nothing happens. What I do is just to keep going, and keep my mind fully focused on the feeling "down there." (Keeping your mind focused will take practice, if you find your mind drifting off to something else just bring your mind back to the feeling.) Eventually, it does come back almost full force. I find that when this happens, I usually get the best orgasm's. You can also try other things like vilyzoren suggested, I've used water bottles (obviously you should never drink from them again afterwards :P), and I've even masturbated through underwear or even through old socks. Sometimes, having texture helps. Even if it may seem weird, I would recommend old socks if you find you need texture. They give your fingers more freedom then through underwear. My last tip would be to give yourself time to get in the mood, whether it be through fantasies or other "fun time" material. Good luck!
I believe that rubbing your clit with your middle and married finger is fun for first timer, but then it gets a little boring but try these ideas they helped me a lot : rubbing my clit with my finger, if you want to squirt try a plastic drum stick and wiggle the stick around your vagina
next maybe use the head of the shower and rub your clit while water is dripping onto your clit or into Your vagina.
I'm 15 so I kinda have some experience with this kinda stuff by now lol.Use an electric tooth brush on your clit (No not the same one you use for brushing your teeth) it really works it feels so good!! Finger yourself at the same time and its amazing.
Hi ! i know this is from a year ago but i need tips. I don't know where and how to put my finger up my vagina . PLEASE HELP I EANT TO SQURIT SO BAAAAD