My BFs penis is about 2 1/2-3 fingers thick (in female fingers), and about 5 1/2 inches long hes also 15 1/2 years old. i also want to know if this is a normal size or smaller/bigger for his age (not that it matters to me). when he does finger me with two fingers, it hurts but then after he does it for a while it feels great. with his fingers being bigger than mine, will it hurt the first time we have sex? im very worried that he will hurt me very much, i want it to be perfect, but at the same time he is very understanding that he might hurt me and he will try his best to not. please help me because im positive i want to give my virginity up to him.
Hi lexi,
Your boyfriends penis is average sized for an adult male. He'll probably get a bit bigger.
Will it hurt the first time? Since you say his fingers hurt then his penis will probably too. Use some extra lubrication and make sure he takes his time. Your body needs to be physically ready for him to enter and relaxed. Don't try to rush it or it will very likely be uncomfortable.
Please use protection. It protects both of you and yes, you can get pregnant the first time.
Your boyfriends penis is average sized for an adult male. He'll probably get a bit bigger.
Will it hurt the first time? Since you say his fingers hurt then his penis will probably too. Use some extra lubrication and make sure he takes his time. Your body needs to be physically ready for him to enter and relaxed. Don't try to rush it or it will very likely be uncomfortable.
Please use protection. It protects both of you and yes, you can get pregnant the first time.
thank you so much :-) any tips on how to keep my mind off of the pain?
The more time you spend on foreplay, the easier and less uncomfortable it will be for both of you.
Just relax as best you can. Talk to him, tell him what to do and if it hurts, let him know. Communication can help.
Hope it helps.
Just relax as best you can. Talk to him, tell him what to do and if it hurts, let him know. Communication can help.
Hope it helps.
would taking my own fingers or even his fingers and spreading my vagina out like a couple days before we actually have sex make it less painful, or will it just go back to its normal "size"?
It might help but probably not much.
A lot is going to depend on YOU. If you get nervous and squeeze down, it'll be uncomfortable for both of you. Seriously, foreplay and being able to relax and take your time will make this much easier for BOTH of you. Use some lube too and tell your partner to go easy. Just because he saw something in a porn movie doesn't mean he should try it out. Slow and gentle will be fine.
A lot is going to depend on YOU. If you get nervous and squeeze down, it'll be uncomfortable for both of you. Seriously, foreplay and being able to relax and take your time will make this much easier for BOTH of you. Use some lube too and tell your partner to go easy. Just because he saw something in a porn movie doesn't mean he should try it out. Slow and gentle will be fine.
And Lexi, from your other post about those concerns, use some protection. Even if you are on the pill make him wear a condom BEFORE his penis gets near your vagina. It will reduce the risk of pregnancy.
Yes, I said risk. Pregnancy is always possible when you have penis/vaginal contact. No birth control is 100% effective.
Yes, I said risk. Pregnancy is always possible when you have penis/vaginal contact. No birth control is 100% effective.
by smooching with him will having sex