I was dating this great guy who disclosed he was diagnosed with Bipolar/ADD and would need space a few days a week. I didn't think much about it because he acted normal and I was happy. After about 3months I told him that I had feelings for him and he said he couldn't love me but it was as much as he could give, since we both were planning to move in different States within a year. He started to pull away and then just broke off with me for the most ridiculous fight. He would become increasingly difficult to talk to and wanted to continue a relationship as friends ( no sex) he also is A sexual right now? well then he wanted to make up with all these conditions  and always 3 weeks, almost like a discipline because it was always my fault. I spent a lot of money on Christmas present and he was busy with project and never saw him. Oh I forgot to mention he doesnt take meds and he drinks a lot. I kept texting and he gnored me for 2 days, so I went crazy a couple of times obsessively calling and texting to get his attention. He is being so mean and wont discuss it with me, its all me, he doesn't feel any responsibilty for this. I miss the guy I fell in love with.  I don't know who he is anymore and I do love him, I can't reason with him.