I have just found out that i have genital herpes. I have a question and wont be going to the doctor for another week so I was hoping to find the answer sooner. My gums are swollen, red and painful. I have a couple bumps on my tongue, and a what looks like a bump with a white tip in between my bottom two front teeth. I was wondering if this might be herpes in my mouth. If it is..will i have this for the rest of my life and if so should i avoid kissing. Any advice would be appreciated!! Thanks!!