My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years now.. He was a virgin when we met and once we started having sex he had no performance issues... but that only lasted for a month or so. He hasn't cum during sex for a year and a half... I can give him oral and there is no problem at all. I let it go because we wuld have sex and then I would just finish with oral so we were both satisfied... but now that it still hasn't changed I'm beginning to lost interest in sex becuase I feel like he's not getting anything out of it. Is he just not interested? am i doing something wrong?
Hi,
It doesn't sound as though he's not interested. I don't think you're doing anything wrong either. Since oral sex works then we know it's not a physical problem.
He may be worried about something. It is very difficult for a guy to cum when he's under any stress. It could be pregnancy or anything. Does he use a condom? Are you on birth control?
Start by talking to him about it and ask him if anything is bothering him. If you've known him for 2 years it shouldn't be that hard to talk about. It must be bothering him too.
Post back and let us know what he says and how it goes.
Good luck
It doesn't sound as though he's not interested. I don't think you're doing anything wrong either. Since oral sex works then we know it's not a physical problem.
He may be worried about something. It is very difficult for a guy to cum when he's under any stress. It could be pregnancy or anything. Does he use a condom? Are you on birth control?
Start by talking to him about it and ask him if anything is bothering him. If you've known him for 2 years it shouldn't be that hard to talk about. It must be bothering him too.
Post back and let us know what he says and how it goes.
Good luck
Hi there, I support what medic-dan has posted but I'd also like to point out that sometimes men are able to train themselves to orgasm only one way. It is very frequent with men, actually, and a lot of men do not orgasm in the act of sex itself! He can actually train himself to orgasm again through thrusting instead of laying on his back and receiving oral sex from you, but he has to start masturbating that way to be able to do it. Is that something you think he might be interested in doing? If so, I can post some tips on how to do it. Thanks!
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tips please!...
tips please!...
hey,
so my bf and i have been together for almost 5 months, but he as only been abl to cum once inside of me....no worries tho, im not prego.
but we r wanting kids soon. but he cant cum at all its not that he isnt interested, we dnt know what it is.... can someone help??
plz if you can, it would mean alot to us to know what we could do.
thnx
so my bf and i have been together for almost 5 months, but he as only been abl to cum once inside of me....no worries tho, im not prego.
but we r wanting kids soon. but he cant cum at all its not that he isnt interested, we dnt know what it is.... can someone help??
plz if you can, it would mean alot to us to know what we could do.
thnx
Me too I have experienced like that..my bf 5months ago the last time he finished when we did love making...he always didn't finish... But me most of the time I always finished.... Big question why my bf difficult for him to orgasm....
First, you are not doing wrong, better you can discuss with your partner and both can solve this problem...
My boyfriend doesn't have orgasm during sex and that is causing me a tension. What can we do?