We have known each other for almost a year now and have been dating for about 5 months. We both know each other very well and trust each other.
When we tried to have sex, it didn't work out as he didn't get hard enough. The problem bothers me and I'd like to help him somehow, but I don't know how. He says that I'm doing everything well and the problem is in him (he told me that he might have such a problem beforehand, it's not his first time). We talked about it, and he doesn't know what is wrong either, but it's not physical. Not sure if he is anxious, but probably a bit. Nothing else than performance anxiety comes to my mind, any ideas? Also, any ideas how to help?
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When we tried to have sex, it didn't work out as he didn't get hard enough. The problem bothers me and I'd like to help him somehow, but I don't know how. He says that I'm doing everything well and the problem is in him (he told me that he might have such a problem beforehand, it's not his first time). We talked about it, and he doesn't know what is wrong either, but it's not physical. Not sure if he is anxious, but probably a bit. Nothing else than performance anxiety comes to my mind, any ideas? Also, any ideas how to help?
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try masturbating him, or oral sex..as a guy, I ALWAYS respond to a hot mouth
It MAY be performance anxiety, if he laid off some of his masturbation on himself, it may work better...some guys use porn to get off...there HAS been documentation that this can alter scenes in reality sex. making it lackluster
The other problem is that he has phymosis, so he refuses to have any oral sex. When I tried to give him a ha****b, it didn't help almost at all, he just got somewhat hard (not as it should be). He watches porn a few times a week and masturbates every day, then he has no problems getting hard, but when we are together it doesn't work. When I first tried to give him a ha****b, it was pretty bad because of phymosis and he said it kind of hurt (later he showed me how I should do it and it became better).
He doesn't watch porn that much, so I don't think it would cause this, so I'm unsure
He doesn't watch porn that much, so I don't think it would cause this, so I'm unsure