My clitoris has allways been larger and it protrudes from my labia so far that I feel like a freak. My dad raised me and said we're not all the same dear. I was teased in the school showers they allways called me "weenie-
woman" and boys ignored me or asked to see "it". I went to college and later married but never let him look or touch me in my private area. He was ok with that but I'm sure he would have never married me if he was aware of my abnormality. He went out to war in our 4th month of marriage and gave his life before returning. Now 9yrs later I've fallen in love again and not sure what to do this time. I've read of clitoris amputation sugery and I don't want that but I'm so embarrassed of my clitoris I can't immagine going on like I have any more. He wants an active open sexlife and is always mentioning his interest in cunniling me to orgasm. I'm wanting the same but I can't let him see me or touch me if I am deformed like this. Should I just call off our relationship or hide myself as I did in my previous marriage? Maybe its just wrong for me to marry since I'm soo abnormal? I might be carring a bad gene? Are there other women like me? I was soo messed up in highschool I tried cutting it off, but I only cut it a tiny bit and bled soo much it scared me. What can I do?
woman" and boys ignored me or asked to see "it". I went to college and later married but never let him look or touch me in my private area. He was ok with that but I'm sure he would have never married me if he was aware of my abnormality. He went out to war in our 4th month of marriage and gave his life before returning. Now 9yrs later I've fallen in love again and not sure what to do this time. I've read of clitoris amputation sugery and I don't want that but I'm so embarrassed of my clitoris I can't immagine going on like I have any more. He wants an active open sexlife and is always mentioning his interest in cunniling me to orgasm. I'm wanting the same but I can't let him see me or touch me if I am deformed like this. Should I just call off our relationship or hide myself as I did in my previous marriage? Maybe its just wrong for me to marry since I'm soo abnormal? I might be carring a bad gene? Are there other women like me? I was soo messed up in highschool I tried cutting it off, but I only cut it a tiny bit and bled soo much it scared me. What can I do?
Sorry to hear about all the grief this has caused you and sorry to hear about your late husband.
As a male I want to encourage you to consider yourself blessed and I can't speak for all men but I consider it a HUGE turn-on! I love women with larger clits and large labia, its more for me to play with and enjoy. Celebrate your difference and enjoy not being "average"!
As a male I want to encourage you to consider yourself blessed and I can't speak for all men but I consider it a HUGE turn-on! I love women with larger clits and large labia, its more for me to play with and enjoy. Celebrate your difference and enjoy not being "average"!
Wow I never thougth I'd ever hear such a kind and comforting response. It really is hard to see my self has as having a feature that is a turn-on. Do you think there is any "safe" way I could find out if the man I'm in love with would feel like you do?
Its hard to say because every situation is unique. Every guy I know well enough to have discussed these issues seems to have the same feelings I do about female genitals. We love them all, every shape and size. The sexiest things are the things that are unique. Every every person had an identical physical body, what would we look to for a turn-on?
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henjenny,
You are not deformed. You are unique. At least give your new man the benefit of a doubt by letting him get to know the real you. This is what solid relationship is all about. If your man does not pass the test, move on and find somebody else who will appreciate the real you.
You are not deformed. You are unique. At least give your new man the benefit of a doubt by letting him get to know the real you. This is what solid relationship is all about. If your man does not pass the test, move on and find somebody else who will appreciate the real you.
Actually, dear, you may not be as unique as you think you are. If you do some research on the Internet you will find there are many sites addressing the issue of large clitoris'. Some are pornographic in nature and some are educational. It seems that many women are comfortable and rejoicing in their body part for many reasons. I agree with the other males here, it is definitely a turn on for most men. There are those, however, who are homophobic and will be threatened by it. Then there are the ignorant who will simply not understand that all women are created differently. After all, there are very flat chested women and very big busted women aren't there? These are the same males who will gather together in the locker room and talk about big penis' they imagine other men have and envy them. You have something that may very well give you enormous pleasure if you become comfortable with the fact that you are niether a freak nor are you different. And, if your partner, whether in marriage or otherwise, has a problem with it you should take that as a sign to move on. Even if you didn't have a large clitoris this is the type of man who will be insecure in other areas and you will spend a lifetime trying to keep him happy, and you can't. This is from a man who has experienced the wonder and loveliness of a woman with a large and very responsive clitoris. It's a beautiful thing.
i have the same problem. I don't know what it is and i'm really scared. so...we're in the same boat! :-)
Do not worry at all, you are just fine and any man worth anything will know and reassure you that there is no problem being larger or smaller in any given body area we are all different let the parts work and enjoy the thrills
HenJenny,
The way I found this site was a search for large clits. I think any man would be thrilled to have a wife. a partner, a lover as you. I agree with the other men. if this man is not thrilled, he does have a problem in accepting you and appreciate what you bring into a relationship. I love you already and know nothing about you..hahaha
The way I found this site was a search for large clits. I think any man would be thrilled to have a wife. a partner, a lover as you. I agree with the other men. if this man is not thrilled, he does have a problem in accepting you and appreciate what you bring into a relationship. I love you already and know nothing about you..hahaha
Maybe try looking it up on the internet. Take a biology class. There is even porn out there. I once read that some women through history in china have had big enough clits to enter the anus of there male partner, personally I've met women who pump to get it this big and enter there boyfriends, my girlfriend had a clit the size of my thumb and I loved it, any adult male will be happy with you, I wouldn't let some childhood name calling get in the way of feeling good and being healthy! It's made of the same material as a penis. I say you should make babies because your sons and daughters will be well endowed and I'm sick of seeing men and women who feel like there genitals look, small and shriveled, if you were a guy you'd have a huge penis!!! That's a wonderful gift to give to the next generation! Please don't waste a gift!!!! There is soooo much more you can experiment with! I'm in premed right now and although I'm not yet a doctor I know that you are normal and healthy.
Enjoy it! The vast majority of males will reckon that the bigger it is, the better. It's an advantage, not a disadvantage
As the other posters have indicated, you are a unique individual. You have an advantage over other women.
Think about it this way, you didn't choose your significant other ONLY by their physical appearance? You choose him because it clicked. Give him the opportunity to know all of you.
Don't let any old names get in your way.
Suggestion- write those nasty names down on pieces of paper, tear them up and tell yourself they will never ever influence you again.
Be the catepillar that emerges from its cocoon, spreads its wings and is the most beautiful sight to be seen.
Take care of yourself and live your life to the fullest.
Think about it this way, you didn't choose your significant other ONLY by their physical appearance? You choose him because it clicked. Give him the opportunity to know all of you.
Don't let any old names get in your way.
Suggestion- write those nasty names down on pieces of paper, tear them up and tell yourself they will never ever influence you again.
Be the catepillar that emerges from its cocoon, spreads its wings and is the most beautiful sight to be seen.
Take care of yourself and live your life to the fullest.
HenJenny, I would worship you! a Huge Clit is a blessing!!
;-) HEY JENNY I WILL BE HAPPY AS HELL TO HAVE A WIFE LIKE YOU ,WELL I AM FROM EUROPE AND WE LOVE THINGS LIKE THAT SO ENJOY
Hi Jenny. I found this trying to do some research on writing a book. I'm a lesbian and let me tell you dear, it is an incredible turn on. If your man is not overjoyed, maybe you should consider the other team. I don't know of a single lesbian that would be turned off! :D