My wife is extremely large, and it has proved to be nothing but a source of extreme pleasure for both her and I. We engage in six-neuf, almost daily, and her large clitoris is a guarantee of her achieving an intense orgasm during our play. I have always found the sight of her vulva to be totally engaging, and would suggest that you enjoy your gift.
This post is dated, but anyone concerned with similar condition should realize that as an adult, you are now free to share your gift, and enjoy the fruits that the experience will bring.
Im very young , im in high school . && im very imbarrased about my clitoris cause of its size, my sisters would always joke with me and say i hade a larg vagina but iv heard from people its a good thing but i dont like it and i wish a had a smaller one to fit in with other ppl. Its not extreamly HUGE but its very big and its big wear it doesnt hide itself in the lips of my vagina. When i have sex with my partner i tend to not let them see it cause im soo imbarrased by it and i really would love to overcome this because it would probably make my sex life alot better. i read all of your comments on this post and they make me very happy. i was wondering if you have overcome your problem yet ? and if you arent embarrased about it anymore ? and if so how did you do it ?
Girls, women, ladies, please please accept the fact that what you've got is special. Guys get inundated with 'enlarge your penis' adverts, and I've never yet seen a shrink your penis, or shrink your clitoris advert! The world's biggest beauty-and-sex secret that would put most of the cosmetics, fashion, health and other companies out of business is that the biggest turn on for a guy, is a woman who enjoys sex. Be shy, that's a turn on for someone, be outrageous, that's a turn on for someone else, big boobs, big market, small boobs, big market, fat, thin, white, black, asian, shaved, hairy - there's 8 billion people out there and forget finding just one miraculous person who'll find you sexy, there are thousands, millions of men who'll enjoy whatever combination you are.
It's interesting to note the comments that it was your fellow girls at school that made you feel different and embarassed - that's peer pressure, not chemistry between a man and women, or two women. Boob jobs can actually make you less sexy, less trusted, to men, as they figure fake boobs, fake what else, personality? The biggest and pretty much only thing we can't fight is age, but men and women can be sexy into their fifties and sixties, big, little, short or tall, there's plenty of people that will find you sexy, just look at the web sites - there's a reason the porn is out there - it's because there's thousands of guys that find pretty much anything and everything attractive, and if that makes us un-fussy, well consider that maybe there's another little known secret - guys like women for who they are, not how they look, or just how they look, and you cannot know how a guy finds you, but if he's paid attention so far, then he finds you attractive, so go for it.
If you want one little suggestion, and you know this is an issue for you, then when he's made his interest clear, kissing or whatever, then just sit him back, and say you know, I want this as much as you seem to want it, but there's a little something I'm a bit embarassed about - and tell him. look on the bright side, if he's a dork, you're about to find out, and save a lot of time and trouble later. Most guys I suspect would be fascinated, curious, and far from hiding it, make a big deal out of enjoying it.
If he gets out the camera, invites his friends, or whatever, there and then - hint, he's a dork. If not, he's a guy, roll with it, and enjoy.
After that, it's all negotiation and relationships... have fun.
Andrew.
ps: have you ever considered what embarasses him? Ever thought that the guy you're with is as astonished to be with you as you are with them, as embarassed and nervous as you might be, or delighted and thrilled as you'd like to be? It's only a rumour, but apparently even film and rock stars are human and have doubts... mere mortals have plenty!
Whatever you're like in reality, your clit is the least of the things that are going to make you happy or unhappy: if it gives you pleasure, then it's working - enjoy it!
It's interesting to note the comments that it was your fellow girls at school that made you feel different and embarassed - that's peer pressure, not chemistry between a man and women, or two women. Boob jobs can actually make you less sexy, less trusted, to men, as they figure fake boobs, fake what else, personality? The biggest and pretty much only thing we can't fight is age, but men and women can be sexy into their fifties and sixties, big, little, short or tall, there's plenty of people that will find you sexy, just look at the web sites - there's a reason the porn is out there - it's because there's thousands of guys that find pretty much anything and everything attractive, and if that makes us un-fussy, well consider that maybe there's another little known secret - guys like women for who they are, not how they look, or just how they look, and you cannot know how a guy finds you, but if he's paid attention so far, then he finds you attractive, so go for it.
If you want one little suggestion, and you know this is an issue for you, then when he's made his interest clear, kissing or whatever, then just sit him back, and say you know, I want this as much as you seem to want it, but there's a little something I'm a bit embarassed about - and tell him. look on the bright side, if he's a dork, you're about to find out, and save a lot of time and trouble later. Most guys I suspect would be fascinated, curious, and far from hiding it, make a big deal out of enjoying it.
If he gets out the camera, invites his friends, or whatever, there and then - hint, he's a dork. If not, he's a guy, roll with it, and enjoy.
After that, it's all negotiation and relationships... have fun.
Andrew.
ps: have you ever considered what embarasses him? Ever thought that the guy you're with is as astonished to be with you as you are with them, as embarassed and nervous as you might be, or delighted and thrilled as you'd like to be? It's only a rumour, but apparently even film and rock stars are human and have doubts... mere mortals have plenty!
Whatever you're like in reality, your clit is the least of the things that are going to make you happy or unhappy: if it gives you pleasure, then it's working - enjoy it!
Wow, you are not deformed, men have different tastes and preferences, some men like trucks , some like jeeps, some like sports cars. When it comes to sexual desire, some men like boobs and some like asses. When it comes to fannies, some like tiny clits, I just happen to be a man that loves big clits, the bigger the better. I would love to meet a woman that has a peach as wonderful as yours, big time turn on! You should always be proud of what you have. You should always be honest with your lover. If any one has a problem with what your gifted with, well they have the problem and are not worth your time. I hope you find who your looking for, I could only dream of having a person as gifted as you. Listen too your daddy he was right, daddy's know best. My father gone now, he was a man with great wisdom, he told me listen to your heart, you always know what is best for you. Find the right person and do not settle if you know that person is not right. Because it will haunt you for the rest of your life. Something that I wish I would have listened to if he was still alive, I would have less regrets. Before you give yourself to someone, find out what they like, make it a flirt, "So are you an ass man or a tit man, do you like feet or legs, big clits or small. Make it a fun flirt tease, depending on how he responds will give you a clue. Good luck I hope you find the right person. He is out there never give up hope.
Sincerely,
B. PhD. Psy.
Sincerely,
B. PhD. Psy.
Miss;as I sat here with a tear in my eye contemplating the unwarrented and unfair abuse that has been heaped on you through your life I could only wonder why your husband didn't coax and encourge you to show him that lovey flower you posses.I truly beleave if he had,it would have made your love making so much more loving and brought the two of you closer together.Any man who wouldn't love every part of your body, doesn't deserve to have you.I emplore you to share this part of your body with your current love as soon as you feel it is apropreate,I really beleave that his response will suprise the H-LL out of you and you can really start expearancing love making like you've never known before.Stop waisting you're life and love on any man who would let you go for even one moment harboring this pain in your heart.If your current man is incapable of and loving "ALL of YOU" and helping you to feel comfortable with yourself then he doesn't deserve you and you need to know that ASAP.If he can't except you now, it is quite probable that he will be unable to except you later and it is --most likely he will find out.Besides that,--what kind of a life would that be for you anyway,always afraid that he will find out.You need to know ASAP so that if he does reject you,you can start looking for a real man.By the way,I'm not some young guy who's not dry behind the ears yet.I'm 68 years old and I've been around the block a time or two.I lost My Lady Love to cancer 4 years a go and I hope that if I am lucky enough to meet another lady to spend the rest of my life with,what you have, I would find most attractive in a aprospesctive mate.There are many men looking for someone with a lovely flower just like you have.You need start accepting and loving that lovely flower that God gave and experancing the pleasure it can provideYou never know,you may have already found the right man. he may really suprise.Share it with with him ASAP.By the way your father sounds like a wise man.Listen to him."And don't you Ever let anyone take a knife to that gift from God" Love and good luck.
I like prominent female genitalia there is no hide & seek mission with the clitoris however, like Bobcats while they may vary in size, stroked well they all purr the same.
You should be happy having a large clitoris as it is much easier to have an orgasm!,,,,many women have one too small and find it difficult to rgasm!
I have an enlarged clitoris and I am a lesbian. My girlfriend freaked out out first time! Now she wants to just look at it and it makes me uncomfortable. I have never had a problem reakky until now! I understand that she curious and wants to see. With all that being said, embrace what you have and enjoy it. I do!! It is true, I orgasm quickly, mutiple times!!
I am turend on by that and its almost impossible to meet somone like you. I wish i could see it
I have the same exact problem!! i told my boyfriend he cant look or touch either!!
Girl you are blessed. A real man who loves you (or woman for that matter) would not care less and would likely be turned on! I am married to a wonderful woman with larger than normal labia and clit and they turn me on more than I dare say. If his penis were extra large or small would you love him any less?
I am a normal, healthy man who is attracted to normal healthy women. I personally find a large clitoris a turn-on. It is a very attractive, very feminine feature. What kids say in locker rooms has nothing to do with what adults are actually attracted to - such talk is usually based on something that they are not yet prepared to comprehend. But, I recognize the long term impact that those hurtful things can have on someone. That is hard to get past sometimes.
The biggest issue you have is not feeling "sexy" about your your genitalia. And, even though I find a large clitoris quite sexy, what really matters is that the person it is attached to feels sexy about herself. I don't really know how to tell you this is not something you need to hide from a potential lover. Maybe find someone using the internet (you need to be really careful about that!) that is specifically attracted to a woman with a large clitoris and pursue a sexual relationship. This will let you experiment with a person you already know is going to find that particular part of you attractive. Perhaps this would allow you to feel confident and sexy about yourself.
There are so many misconceptions out there about what men like and find attractive. The reality is that attractiveness is more about confidence and how you conduct yourself, yes even in a highly sexually charged sexual situation, than the size of any particular feminine feature.
The biggest issue you have is not feeling "sexy" about your your genitalia. And, even though I find a large clitoris quite sexy, what really matters is that the person it is attached to feels sexy about herself. I don't really know how to tell you this is not something you need to hide from a potential lover. Maybe find someone using the internet (you need to be really careful about that!) that is specifically attracted to a woman with a large clitoris and pursue a sexual relationship. This will let you experiment with a person you already know is going to find that particular part of you attractive. Perhaps this would allow you to feel confident and sexy about yourself.
There are so many misconceptions out there about what men like and find attractive. The reality is that attractiveness is more about confidence and how you conduct yourself, yes even in a highly sexually charged sexual situation, than the size of any particular feminine feature.
I'm 17 and my clits big. I have a boyfirend and we both have strong sexual attraction but if i am to have sex with him, i know that i will cover myself up and try to hide it. I panic when ever he trys to feel up my leg. I freakout and stop his hand. I don't want him to stop but i'm so self conscious that i cant help but stop him. Its like an auto matic that i do. I love him so much but im afraid he wont like me. So ur not the only one who has this problem. I may be 17 but i know what i have is abnormal. Its like the size of the tip of my pinky. >///< i feel like crying when ever i think about it.
I believe that a large clit on a woman is absolutely a great turn-on. Speaking from a man's point of view, there is something really exotic and erotic about seeing a large clit and swollen labia. You should be proud to have what you have since I imagine it is very senstive and it should provide you with many wonderful orgasms.