Sorry it's so long ^^ You can tell I was emotional about it ;)
There is surgery btw but I would only suggest it if it's hurting you. Otherwise don't change yourself for others, find someone who loves you for who you are :)
Just wanted to encourage you that you are normal, you're beautiful, and there are others out there that have gone or are going through exactly how you feel right now. I am just glad you are asking and finding out now, because for me I went for so long thinking I was weird! :) ::hugs::
Did you ever find a solution to this problem? I have quite literally EXACTLY the same problem as you (an abnormal amount of discharge and a large labia minora) and its so hard going to school everyday knowing that I'm gonna endure the horrible feeling day after day... I constantly change the position I'm sitting in during classes just cuz I'm never comfortable - and I've been having this for about 3 years! I really don't like it when everyone says 'be happy with who you are' and 'everyone's body is different'. I don't care so much about how my vagina looks, I just want the feeling to go away!
If you've got any sort of a solution I would really be 100% in debt to you. Oh and I'm 14 by the way.
Thank you!
I am almost 50 but when I was 16 the first girl I went down on had very very long labia, I knew it was common from seeing magaizines but I did not care, it was literally like 7 inches long and got caught in the back of my mouth and gaged me, all I need to do was hold it out to the side and everything was great. never caused me any concerns. I do not know about the discharge, every time we were together she was shower fresh. i think it is fine just makes you you!!!
Girls, long labia are super sexy - so don't feel bad about them. I am a guy and prefer the longer labia over the small ones that hide. Don't worry if they are not exactly the same size - we men do not care about that.
The issue the first girl had with discharge does not have anything to do with long labia. Any girl can have discharge due to a number of reasons. If there is some infection, then get it figured out. But most likely the discharge is normal. The main thing we men care about is you have good hygiene and are clean. Keep yourself clean and you man will love giving you attention in that special area. Excuse yourself and wash up before being with a man so you are fresh. I guarantee he will love you for it. And if you man does not do the same, give him a gentle reminder. We men need to keep clean too.
But back to large labia. They are the best, so please, no surgery. Keep them long and love yourself first - your man will love you too.
I ment to say I knew it was NOT common. but anyway oral sex all you/or him have to do is hold it out to the side. just keep being you, i think things like this are sexy.
I can tell you as a man long vaginal lips are wonderful! Don't cut them off most men love them. Don't worry so much about the discharge unless it's an infection. The additional lubrication will make sex much more pleasurable!
um 30yrs old,i have a big labia lips and all years i was embarrassed but six months later i found a man who loves ma big labia lips.um now feel like a woman, um pound of ma big labia lips. thank God by dis big gift. i even enjoy sex now.
I am obsessed with long labias. They are a real turn on. The discharge will just make it feel that much better. Long labia are a must for me.