Obviously the problem here is you. Your kids scream and misbehave, and your response is to reward the behavior with painting and baking cakes? You aren't in charge - your kids are - and you've given up control. Eventually you'll pass your little problems on to the rest of us to deal with, and unfortunately, there are more parents like you, all the time.
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I'm glad that you screaming kids. But your sarcasm turns me off. My kinds of kid haters don't use sarcasm.
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Woah...take a chill pill my friend.
We are all on this page because we or someone else we know has been or is currently in this situation (i.e. kids that drive you insane).
And so, we're all trying to help each other out; which is what Married_chic was doing: offering some advice.
If it sounds good, take it.
If it's unreliable, leave it.
Instead, you just straight out put someone down despite the fact that they're trying to help you. Ungrateful much?
Also...you may claim that there may be NO apparent reason for your child's behavior but there IS one. We all do things - whether it is unconsciously or consciously - for a reason. Children are no exception. Even if you say you've enforced rules, 'disciplined' the kids...that kind of has no bearing on anything. In the end, it's HOW you did it. How did you enforce these 'rules'? How did you 'discipline' them?
I don't need to be a mother to understand. I've been babysitting brats (excuse the word) my whole life so far. Only recently have I had to face the worst brats in history. Three of them - two boys and a girl - who are out of control, spoilt and (sometimes) rude. I can you tell why - their mother spoils them; doesn't discipline them AT ALL. So when she restricts them or tells them to do something they don't want to do, they don't listen. And so she stresses out and wonders why they are like this.
I would like to go on but then that would mean sitting here thinking about how I should write what I want to say without sounding condescending, know-it-all, etc...and frankly, I don't think I want to do that.
But, I really do wish you all the best in raising your kids.
Remember, there is no such thing as a perfect mother. So just try your best. Also, everyone is different, what works for one person might not work for another.
We are all on this page because we or someone else we know has been or is currently in this situation (i.e. kids that drive you insane).
And so, we're all trying to help each other out; which is what Married_chic was doing: offering some advice.
If it sounds good, take it.
If it's unreliable, leave it.
Instead, you just straight out put someone down despite the fact that they're trying to help you. Ungrateful much?
Also...you may claim that there may be NO apparent reason for your child's behavior but there IS one. We all do things - whether it is unconsciously or consciously - for a reason. Children are no exception. Even if you say you've enforced rules, 'disciplined' the kids...that kind of has no bearing on anything. In the end, it's HOW you did it. How did you enforce these 'rules'? How did you 'discipline' them?
I don't need to be a mother to understand. I've been babysitting brats (excuse the word) my whole life so far. Only recently have I had to face the worst brats in history. Three of them - two boys and a girl - who are out of control, spoilt and (sometimes) rude. I can you tell why - their mother spoils them; doesn't discipline them AT ALL. So when she restricts them or tells them to do something they don't want to do, they don't listen. And so she stresses out and wonders why they are like this.
I would like to go on but then that would mean sitting here thinking about how I should write what I want to say without sounding condescending, know-it-all, etc...and frankly, I don't think I want to do that.
But, I really do wish you all the best in raising your kids.
Remember, there is no such thing as a perfect mother. So just try your best. Also, everyone is different, what works for one person might not work for another.
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Woah...take a chill pill friend.
We are all on this page because we or someone else we know has been or is currently in this situation (i.e. kids that drive you insane).
And so, we're all trying to help each other out; which is what Married_chic was doing: offering some advice.
If it sounds good, take it.
If it's unreliable, leave it.
Instead, you just straight out put someone down despite the fact that they're trying to help you. Ungrateful much?
Also...you may claim that there may be NO apparent reason for your child's behavior but there IS one. We all do things - whether it is unconsciously or consciously - for a reason. Children are no exception. Even if you say you've enforced rules, 'disciplined' the kids...that kind of has no bearing on anything. In the end, it's HOW you did it. How did you enforce these 'rules'? How did you 'discipline' them?
I don't need to be a mother to understand. I've been babysitting brats (excuse the word) my whole life so far. Only recently have I had to face the worst brats in history. Three of them - two boys and a girl - who are out of control, spoilt and (sometimes) rude. I can you tell why - their mother spoils them; doesn't discipline them AT ALL. So when she restricts them or tells them to do something they don't want to do, they don't listen. And so she stresses out and wonders why they are like this.
I would like to go on but then that would mean sitting here thinking about how I should write what I want to say without sounding condescending, know-it-all, etc...and frankly, I don't think I want to do that.
But, I really do wish you all the best in raising your kids.
Remember, there is no such thing as a perfect mother. So just try your best. Also, everyone is different, what works for one person might not work for another.
We are all on this page because we or someone else we know has been or is currently in this situation (i.e. kids that drive you insane).
And so, we're all trying to help each other out; which is what Married_chic was doing: offering some advice.
If it sounds good, take it.
If it's unreliable, leave it.
Instead, you just straight out put someone down despite the fact that they're trying to help you. Ungrateful much?
Also...you may claim that there may be NO apparent reason for your child's behavior but there IS one. We all do things - whether it is unconsciously or consciously - for a reason. Children are no exception. Even if you say you've enforced rules, 'disciplined' the kids...that kind of has no bearing on anything. In the end, it's HOW you did it. How did you enforce these 'rules'? How did you 'discipline' them?
I don't need to be a mother to understand. I've been babysitting brats (excuse the word) my whole life so far. Only recently have I had to face the worst brats in history. Three of them - two boys and a girl - who are out of control, spoilt and (sometimes) rude. I can you tell why - their mother spoils them; doesn't discipline them AT ALL. So when she restricts them or tells them to do something they don't want to do, they don't listen. And so she stresses out and wonders why they are like this.
I would like to go on but then that would mean sitting here thinking about how I should write what I want to say without sounding condescending, know-it-all, etc...and frankly, I don't think I want to do that.
But, I really do wish you all the best in raising your kids.
Remember, there is no such thing as a perfect mother. So just try your best. Also, everyone is different, what works for one person might not work for another.
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you must live in so calif. hispanics don't give a sh*t what their little rotten brats are doing. they only have the brats around so they can get more welfare money to buy more cervasa and pass out and not hear the little frikin demons. although, most of the frikin parents are just as frikin noisy and obnoxious. they are just gross, trashy, disgusting, ignorant people and they all hang out at walmart. nuff said.
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My neighbors, have parties every weekend. therefore, adults, bring their young children. The, adults, for the most part, stay in the back, while they drink, and cook out. Meanwhile, the kids, are in the front, yard, and running back, and forth across the street, yelling, and screaming, just because they can. They, aren't being watched, properly, hope they don't get hit, by a car, one day. The, newest, thing is they, have let their children, start building things, mostly hammering, and nails, flying, spray painting, all between our two yards. I, know the kids learn, by the parents, behavior, and hear, them constantly, yelling, and screaming, watching the flatscreen, outside. I, have nothing against, children, having raised two kids, myself. But, like some of the other parents, have said, If, you don't teach your children, to respect, other's privacy, they, just keep on, doing it. I, used to enjoy, my yard, as it is quite large, and has, a privacy fence. But, now, it's beyond enjoyable. There's, sweet, and there's obnoxious behavior. I, have a son, who play's music, every now, and again. Although, it's not nearly, what it used, to be, and there's a cut off time, at night, when, he does. I, hear them, complaining, to their friends, "Oh, I know, nobody, will say anything, he say's." Wow, just WOW! " Teach, your children, respect, or they, will not respect YOU. It's, truly sad. Of, course, the parents, are arrogant, too, so monkey, see, monkey, do. By, the way, people, can hear, what you say, so, when, a parent, say's something, "inappropriate", the children, hear it, as well, as your next, door neighbor. I, grew up, to respect, and watch, out for my neighbor's. I, guess, they, just didn't. "Going, batty"
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How is saying loud rap music a racist comment? You literally just brought racism in for no apparent reason. She was stating what kind of music it was. Wow. Just wow.
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@beard2582
Well obviously you don't work so it's not important for you to have down time and not be able too because the next door neighbours children are unattended while the parents do god knows what inside with the children screaming at the top of their lungs but yes! Let's just hope they grow out of it any time soon... If I wanted to hear screaming children I would have had one from my own loins!! If people cannot control their children then they simply shouldn't have them.
Well obviously you don't work so it's not important for you to have down time and not be able too because the next door neighbours children are unattended while the parents do god knows what inside with the children screaming at the top of their lungs but yes! Let's just hope they grow out of it any time soon... If I wanted to hear screaming children I would have had one from my own loins!! If people cannot control their children then they simply shouldn't have them.
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To, the guest who said, they could sympathize. So, disappointed, use the word, here, not "hear." It, is not an easy job, raising children. But, when you've lived, in a house, for over 14 years. It, is truly upsetting, that you can't relax, in your own back yard, anymore. The, kids are not bad, kids, just not being made to behave. They, tell them to not do something, and then, it's over. Back, to the same thing, never stops. These, people should not have children. Not, when partying is the more important, recreation. When, they get older, they will choose, it's ok to drink alcohol, and curse. It's, ok because my parents did it. It, will come back to haunt, them. I, pray it doesn't. But, I've seen how children,
grow up, with dysfunctional parents. Some, will be o.k. Some, will not. It, would be great, if you
could talk, rationally, with the next door neighbor, but it's, not possible. He, know's it all, already. Too, bad.
grow up, with dysfunctional parents. Some, will be o.k. Some, will not. It, would be great, if you
could talk, rationally, with the next door neighbor, but it's, not possible. He, know's it all, already. Too, bad.
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I think you all should take birth control and stop being so egotesticles...(lol) Bringing children into the world today is pure ego and selfish, the future is NOT bright, we all know this....Good luck to everyone, I just came here to get some help for the 7 brats next door that have been playing and screaming for over 9 hours now, my neighbors sit in the garage doing drugs, I can't afford to move, I'm in hell. Maybe CPS? Maybe call the cops, who knows, it's been going on for over a year, I just can't seem to win.
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I am sooo glad I'm not alone in feeling like this. I'm a full-time student living in an apartment under a very young single mother of two kids (ages 3 and 5, boy and girl) and it's been a complete nightmare. The kids scream continuously (and I mean NONSTOP) all day every day. Sometimes they'll cry for their mother for hours on end but will get no response from her (I hear or see her interacting with them). Because of this I can't study or do homework in my own damn house. I am beyond fed up at this point. And all of the people defending screaming children, wake up. There's a distinction between kids playing and kids being consistently bratty. If you don't have what it takes to raise children properly, then DO NOT have them!!!
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I, used to have a kid, that would show up at my home, every day. He, lived with his Grandmother, and
she would lock him, out of the house. So, he would naturally, go to our house, and end up eating
dinner, with us. I, called her on the phone, and told her, he was getting locked out of the house, while
she was at work. She, denied locking him out, wasn't rude, but just lied about it. My, point is, I tried to
approach her about it. It, got better for a while. But, if your neighbor is not watching her kids, and letting them just run wild, I would ask, her nicely, if she knew her kids were looking for her, as you are trying to study, for school. The, other route, is write a letter, to your local mayor, or social services, and ask what they, can do. You, can ask to be anonymous. Mabe, if you are concerned, about their safety, and would like to know what the local noise ordinance law, is. Someone, should contact you. If, they are crying, for hours on end, that is neglect. Kids, need to have interaction, not just left outside, alone. Hope, that helps. It, may get the ball rolling. I, know the feeling, have the same problem, with my neighbors. It's extremely annoying, and sad at the same time.
she would lock him, out of the house. So, he would naturally, go to our house, and end up eating
dinner, with us. I, called her on the phone, and told her, he was getting locked out of the house, while
she was at work. She, denied locking him out, wasn't rude, but just lied about it. My, point is, I tried to
approach her about it. It, got better for a while. But, if your neighbor is not watching her kids, and letting them just run wild, I would ask, her nicely, if she knew her kids were looking for her, as you are trying to study, for school. The, other route, is write a letter, to your local mayor, or social services, and ask what they, can do. You, can ask to be anonymous. Mabe, if you are concerned, about their safety, and would like to know what the local noise ordinance law, is. Someone, should contact you. If, they are crying, for hours on end, that is neglect. Kids, need to have interaction, not just left outside, alone. Hope, that helps. It, may get the ball rolling. I, know the feeling, have the same problem, with my neighbors. It's extremely annoying, and sad at the same time.
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there is nothing racial about rap music??? rap music can be sung by any race.. it seems like you're the one bringing race into this
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I have children, i have a master's degree in psychology, and I've worked with children for years. Poor behaved children are a result of poor parenting....period.
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