I'm an 18 year old straight male, my penis is so sensitive that if anything touches it, it sends a shock through my body of displeasure/disgust, which leads me to lose an erection immediately if I have one. I have been masturbating since I was 15 in a different way that the traditional "up-and-down with lotion" way, and have never had sex, so my penis is not use to being touched by hands, and it doesn't feel good if it is touched by hands or any other body part. For awhile now, I have tried the traditional lotion way to simulate sex, but the second I touch my penis with my hand (even with the lotion) it feels so disgusting and wet that I loose my erection immediately. I believe this will be a huge problem for me in the near and far future.
If anybody can give me some tips on how to feel pleasure this way, or possible reasons as to why I get so disgusted and have no pleasure from touching myself, PLEASE do not hesitate to reply.
Hi CS,
Are you uncircumcised? I'm guessing that you are. Can you fully retract your foreskin if you are?
What part of your penis do you find particularly sensitive? The glans? If so that is normal.
Post back with more information.
I'd forget about the lotion for now. Just get used to touching your penis.
You could try putting on a condom to see how that feels.
There are sprays that can desensitize your penis too.
Or, see a urologist. They specialize in the male reproductive system.
Good luck.