Dear Guy I sure hope this is a pre-novel attempt - if not, there is way too much UNHEALTHY drama in your life. You owe it to yourself to continue with the novel you are writing or discountinue the life you are living - kick that twit to the curb and her friends and her mother and father. Please tell me u have moved on.
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Brother, I can't believe I read the whole thing! I was just messing around surfing the web and don't know how or why I clicked on your post but I do not regret it. I see it has been over a year that you posted, but in the event that you check in on this every now and then know that I will say a prayer for you today. I definitely feel your pain, and I hope you are in a better place surrounded by better people who can appreciate how obviously special and unique you are. I think you are someone who has made the world a better place. No matter where you are today, don't ever lose hope and don't ever lose yourself for anyone. God bless.
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i hope everything worked out for you.... I am in your same position but coming from the other side.... i feel what you were writing about... it hurts i know... if i ever found someone as caring and beautiful of a person as you.... i would leave my relationship right away. I hope your well now, you deserve so much more than what you have given. You have a beautiful soul...
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God be with the previous poster and Original Poster[OP.]. I for one don't believe on giving up on people. But in a relationship irreconsable differences, with break up couples whether married or not. I had an experience like this when I was your age. It broke me as I self admit abondonment issues, breaking up is hard to do. I then womanized, basically weekends and nights revolved around filling the gap, I often screwed or fought. I can't see where she physically cheated on You. Correct my if I'm wrong as I skim read the last 3/8 ths of your story. I had a feeling this waz fiction when I read it., is this true? Moral of the story you did your very best to help a confused girl in need, perhaps saved her life. Very similar to my ex girlfriend she went on to be a successful happy person. I hope and pray your ex girlfriend turns out the same way, as a product of your love and compasssionship.
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I havent been on this forum for a very long time , and the very first article I read is this one, and it truly has touched my heart, yes it was long but it was your way to get everything you can out of your head and reach out to try and get some advise and or even just reasurrance on what you already deeply know., which is so important. I know exactly how you feel, Ive had someone in my life who has loved me one day, with passion and conviction and then on another day pure loathing . What Ive found out in the process is not only have I had to try and change, and love my self that little more, was to try and remember it is those who treat you this way are the ones who really have the problem. Ive found out my partner has mental health issues, which have caused his reactions, his (so called bad behaviour) this hasnt been an easy discovery however it has helped with the understanding of why one day he loves me and the next he doesnt. His own insecurity causes his reactions to the way he behaves., and yours the loss keeps you from not letting go. Boundries are what you need., for both the mother and your girlfriend. The longer you stay away and get yourself together the more you will be able to see what is ahead without her, if you dont you will need to set huge boundries, on what you will accept and what you wont, even if this includes not seeing her mother., the strength lays within, you must stick to your boundries no matter what., Hope you find happiness no matter what you do
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I was in a similar situation too. You love her but its not worth it. So far you have dodged a bullet. Focus on your work, that is what's going to save you. You have to RUN away from this girl. You can't save HER! You must save YOU! I went throug this with a woman for almost 5 years, amd in the end it did not make ma difference, she kept cussing me out, blaming me for HER mistakes a not appreciating anything I did. Can you imagine having a child with this woman? Your mom has programmed you to be a Captain Savahoe, which never works. Have you really been happy with this woman? Have yopu ever considered the fact that despite all of the time you have been together that you still manage to feel lonely quite often? This is because she is the centre of your universe., and what a pathethic and small universe it is. You need to heal, but you can only do that by RUNNING awaya from this girl and her drama. SHe is poison to you. She is too dysfunctional to love youy. You deserve better. You MUST leave! take this from some one who was also reluctant to let go. He who fuks up and gets away, gets to live another way.
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