My son has started spending a lot of time in his room after showers

Hi Guest

He could be starting to masturbate it's a normal part of puberty to explore his body and discover pleasures.
He could be doing this and in the privacy of his own room he should be allowed to without being concerned about being caught.
He is a teen boy it's normal if he is doing it and his privacy should be respected what your hearing could be just chat with a friend as long as the friend is his age and he is not putting anything inappropriate online no need to worry.
Often boys get advice and compare with their male friends.
Just like he should respect your privacy his should be respected as well..

But he doesn't have a phone in there

Hey there, he doesn’t need a phone to masturbate he can do it in his own without a phone or computer or television.

Hi 

Don't worry about it, most boys at the age of 13 are discovering the new feelings that they are experiencing, sexual feelings start to develop tend t develop with the onset of puberty however this can happen before pubtery depending on how that persons body works and develops.

My advice is not to worry about it, you could have a talk with him to help him understand that masturbation is normal and there is nothing to be ashamed of, you may also like to explain ejaculation to him so he doesn't feel embarrassed about making a mess.

I hope this helped answer your question.

Showers are very sensual for boys, teenagers especially, and they often get erections in there and begin to play with themselves either in the shower or immediately afterwards.
If your son is simply masturbating then there is no problem with that, it is perfectly normal. You may need to provide him with a box of tissues to clean up after the inevitable.
What is unusual is the whispering you mention. Does he have a mobile phone or other camera? Could he be doing cybersex with a friend? If either of those might be the case I think you need to find out and do your best to stop it. 13 years of age is too young for that type of activity. It will inevitably lead to further in-person sexual activity and the possibly disastrous results.

DO YOU NOTICE ANY HOTDOGS MISSING FROM OUT OF THE PACK?

Thought #1; The good news is that he isn't tying up the bathroom/shower for "a lot of time", leaving it free for everyone else in the household who may want to use it. Thought #2; 13 years old? How certain are you that he hasn't hit puberty? Does he walk by you naked so you can see that his penis is about inch and a half long and about the thickness of his finger, his "nuts" really are the size of little nuts and not a hint of hair. Thought #3 I would like to know what the whispering is about. (Let's say his name is John.) I hope he isn't staring in the online show, "Johnnie's Weenie and Nuts Tricks Discovery Show"! Thought #3a (If he is doing #3) I hope nobody can trace this back to him to the point of being able to make psychical contact with him.

Sounds like me when I was going thru puberty! When I started masturbating I spent a long time in the shower & my room! I couldn’t get enough of masturbating & when I had cum the first time it ever felt awesome when I shot my load of sperm for the first time!! I love to masturbate every day!! I love my penis & I love to make my penis cum!!