Hi, I am 27 years old male and is dating a 56 years old male. We have been together for almost a year now. This is my first time being in a relationship and I am very much in love with this man, went through a lot with him through highs and lows (I mean low lows). He said that I am his first gay lover and have always been with a female. He has divorced when he was about 30 years old. Anyway, I am a full time student, and I work on the weekends and sometimes after school. He got laid off his job early last year before we met and he has been receiving financial help from govt., but I am pretty much paying for most of the expenses even though I got tuition and other stuff to pay. He does take good care of me and always tells me that he loves me. I consider myself a passionate lover and I do want a passionate lover, but it hasn't been that great nor good in bed with him. I prefer to be a bottom but the whole time we have been together it only happened twice. The first time he lasted a minute and the second time probably just 30 seconds, despite how quick he finished I loved every second of it and now I just want it more. He blames his age for not being able to get an erection, he barely gets an erection. To summarize I am not being satisfied with my sexual needs. I really love him and want to work it out with him, but I am so frustrated and almost to the point of giving up. I even went to a gay dating website to meet an older man but backed out, because I love him. What to do, help!
No not at all, it's enjoyment for him and is necessary to be sexually healthy for both of you.