One labia minora much larger than the other?

I am 15 and i have the same probaly i am sexueal active with my bf and he noticed it too he seems to not matter because everyone has the same problem it's not like people point it out also if they notice it's not a problem it's very common  plus i am still shy about it but every girl or most girls have it so girls it's ok:)

I have this as well, though I don't think that is what causes the "dryness" I get very wet when I am aroused. I haven't actually had sex, but my bf has fingered me and seen my vagina and he doesn't seem to really notice or mind, I was self concious about it when I was younger, but now I don't seem to mind, I think it is rather normal and at the end of the day I don't think any of us are gonna look down there thinking ours is pretty! lol

I have the same thing.. I don't think it causes the dryness either, because most of the time I feel like I'm over-lubricated and he won't feel me :/. So basically I worry a lot about my "area". I have learned recently that many other women have both enlarged labia minora. Its good to feel a little more normal knowing I'm not the only one with only of labia minora larger than the other.. I still don't feel confident about it though. I actually feel extremely uncomfortable if my boyfriend tries to go down there. He says he doesn't mind but it still bothers me, especially because of his dumb comment saying that it probably because the guy before him was bigger. I got after him for that, let him know how much that hurt my feelings, and that I've been this way since puberty. I was actually considering a labiaplasty, and still sort of am. Only because of how ugly it makes me feel. I know now its normal so it has helped a little, but it is still very uncomfortable, like literally. It hurts a lot sometimes, especially if it rubs on my clothing or it accidentally is pushed with the penis during sex. I am still debating if I am willing to risk it.. But I'm proud of the women who find their bodies beautiful and unqiue.. :)

I'm 18 years old and i have this problem too. I've been with my present boyfriend and we've recently become sexually intimate. I was always conscious of my so called "problem" down there but really it's just skin. He doesnt mind it at all. And when he fingers me he pays no mind to it. Honestly i don't think any guy would mind it as long as he's getting pleasure. Lol. So no, guys will not think it's weird.

I'm 13 too and have this.. I thought I was the only one -.- good to know I'm not the only one and it's normal.!

i think i have labia minor but Im not sure...Im worried that it might be something serious but i dont want to ask my mam because it would be too awkward....what should u do?

I also have one of my labia minora being overly large compared to the other and I am relieved and happy to see that I'm not the only one!
I am really self-conscious about it, and finding out that there are many others out there with the same situation is a relief.
I don't think I want a surgery, and I feel very satisfied knowing I'm not the only one.

Yeh I'm 15 and also sexually active with my boyfriend. My labia is also bigger/longer than the other. At first I was like freaking out thinking he'd be like what the hell? But honestly he didn't even care :) now I'm so comfortable with him seeing that, I've gotten over it, when I was young I was like do I have cancer ?! Then I found out it's totally normal and I'm so relieved I'm not the only one :) if ur scared the your boyfriend will freak, don't be:) if he truly loves u, he won't even notice it :) it's normal, and ur all beautiful:)

Girls, I'm 28 years old and I've always had the same "issue". I used to be self conscious about it, but trust me when I say that guys DO NOT CARE.
Don't feel ashamed about your body. It's a beautiful part of being a woman and makes every single one of us different.

wow. I am amazed to see how many people have this same issue. I just turned 17 and mine's been like this for several years. Maybe around 8th grade was when I noticed the difference? Like my labia minoras used to be both so tiny and cute in a way...lol, but then one day the left one turned MASSIVE. Like it hurts and gets irritated when it touches clothing and is just super sensitive. It sucks and I hate it so much. I've never had sex or anything, but like my ex-boyfriend used to put his hands down there all the time, and I was so self-conscious it's crazy. I remember one time it was in the way of what he was "trying to do"...so awk for me but he probs didn't notice. and another time I was almost positive he kept feeling that specific labia on purpose, just bc it was different. ugh i hated it. I just wanted to yell DONT JUDGE ME! now that I know it's fairly common, I am not as self conscious about it. However that doesn't make the severity of my irritation decrease. Ugh it sucks so bad!!! Like even if I touch it when my hands are dry, it hurts! My hands have to be wet for me to touch it. Sometimes I subconsciously put lotion on it because it relieves irritation to some degree...is that weird? 

Oh has this ever happened to anyone? Because I did not like it very much: Boyfriend fingers you and very slowly and sneakily when he thinks you're not looking smells his finger? I was appalled....like do I have some fascinating disgusting odor or something? I swear that happened every freaking time and it continues to gross me out.

Also guys...do boys find the unsymmetrical vaginas disgusting? ugh i want that surgery i am in pain physically and mentally

thanks;P

I have this too. My left one is way bigger that the other one.. It is so uncomfortable and itching for me..does you guys have the problem of itching?

TO ANYONE WHO IS WORRIED THAT THIS WILL BE UNATTRACTIVE TO A MALE:

As someone who is sexually active and has had multiple partners, I can confidently tell you not to worry. Even the douchiest guys I have slept with (and there have been a couple, unfortunately) don't care, and the nice ones definitely don't.

 

It's something that I still get self-conscious about from time-to-time, but it really doesn't matter.

Oh man do I feel you. I have the same problem (I'm also 13) and it sucks! So glad in not alone.

Ok, yeah, surgery is one reason the world sucks but i can think of many other reasons and im sure you can too. I have the same problem but i guess its ok. I dont know how long its been that way but its not uncomfortable and it doesnt hurt so its probably fairly normal. Get surgery if you want. I have heard that after getting surgery for that kind of thing some people experience numbness, but hey, youre your own person. Do what you want.

You know, the itching is probably yeast infection. It happens internally and externally to the majority of females throughout their lives. There are creams and things you can get to get rid of it. If its on the outside itll look like kind of wet baking soda and if its on the inside stuff will probably. come out that is kind of foggy white. If it hurts you really need to see a doctor i think.