This is property a perianal hematoma which is very common if you had a diarrhea or a hard stool, the reason why it's painful because the blood did clog in there and now you are in the "healing" process
To speed the healing process try to sit in a way where your heart position is lower than your anus "Use pillows under you" this way your body will absorb the clogged blood faster and avoid sitting on your anus this will only make things wrose, don't even touch that area unless you need to , also keep it clean, use water because wipes are useless if someone did sh*t on your face do you wipe your face or do you wash it with water? same thing goes there.
And most dangerous part is DON'T TRY TO PUSH IT INSIDE YOUR ANUS, This only work for HEMORRHOIDS NOT PERIANAL HEMATOMA, many people mix things and try to push it inside because they did somewhere online that it helps, if you tried to push it inside you will only cause yourself more pain and slower healing process
OF Course be sure it's PERIANAL HEMATOMA First so check with your doctor
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/so-my-girlfriend-want-to-well-do-me-in-the-bum#787234
a pea sized white lump inside my anus
i have dioreea on most days and i recently bought a butt plug
I also have been sitting around for long periods in winter
I put it down to these reasons and I'm hoping it will disappear in a week or two
I dont have discharge but i do eat a huge amount of chocolate
so I think my blood sugar level may be sky high and affecting it
this is something else people should check
Please help...
At first it wasn't very painful. There was a little discomfort while sitting, but not too bad. By that evening it was hurting a little more. I did some internet searching and decided that I probably had a perianal hematoma. Most information I could find on it said it should get better in 2-4 days. Since self-diagnosis is always a bad idea, I gave myself 4 days for the situation to improve before I would seek out a doctor.
The 2nd - 4th days were a little more painful. I started trying to up my fluid intake and eat food higher in fiber to make bowl movements easier. The movements weren't especially painful, I expected them to be worse. I also stopped wiping with toilet paper, going more for a dab method and then trying to clean off in the shower.
Luckily on the 5th day I could tell that it was starting to get smaller. I decided that this was a good trend and did not seek out a doctor. It has been steadily decreasing in size now and everything is pretty much back to normal.
Now, I'm not at all advocating that a concerned person should not seek out medical help. I'm still not sure exactly what my problem was, perianal hematoma or something else. But I thought my story might be of some benefit to somebody out there.
It is the same with me. I'm an 18 year old male, I'm very fit and active, and heavily involved in sports.
Recently (well yesterday at work) I discovered the same problem. When I move the muscles in that area, or even when I am standing still with butt cheeks clenched, there is quite considerable discomfort.
It is right on the anus opening, on the right hand side, about the size of a pea, and is causing me a bit of concern.
My initial reaction was that it might be a tumour. But for me, so long as it isn't life threatening I am fairly happy to just let it heal.
What does everyone think on these things? I read a post where a Net Doctor said it was like a blood blister, and might take 2-3 weeks to fully heal. I'm hoping thats what this is, yet mine doesn't seem to have any discoloring.
Weird =/ ... And awkward.
im 16 and i have the same problem.. it is the size of a pea and is red an is sitting on the opening on the right hand side of my rectum. i am very healthy and i have only had protected sex with women. and when i wipe after toilet there is blood on paper... shoukld i see a doctor??? please reply.