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I was exposed to HPV a year ago through a threesome with my husband and a friend. She had already been treated for it, and had the laser surgery to remove precancerous cells on her cervix. Unfortunetely after she had been treated she then began to have sex with the same partner again, without protection. Well it never occured to me that she had sex with him again after the treatment until after it had been too late. Her and I had been fooling around for awhile before the threesome so it's possible that i got it from her directly, however it's more likely that my husband got it from her by rubbing his penis all over her vagina before sex (even though he used a condom for actual penetration) RETARDED i know, i wanted to kick him in the balls. Anyway here is my question. I think i have HPV because i have a cottage cheesy discharge at times, and ever since about a week or two after the threesome started, i started having a bad smell coming out of my vagina. I thought it was because my husband had cum inside me and i forgot to clean it out, cuz i was on birthcontrol at the time. But later on my husband mentioned that it smells bad when he goes down on me (which made me feel like complete c**p) Also, i noticed on my cervix there is a bumpy spot. So i did some research and it seems i may well be one of the many with HPV. I am going to try and get checked out asap but i cannot afford even planned parenthood because in Arizona, they don't really offer any kind of free services for people with my income as i make just a little too much money....BUT anyway back to the question, if i do have HPV, even if i get treated, i could still contract it again from my husband who would in this scenario definetly have contracted HPV as well, even if we use protection. And he hates using condoms anyway so this would destroy my sex life completely and to be honest it's making me feel more suicidal than usual. I know this shouldn't be the end of the world but we already have so many problems in our marriage this could be the straw that broke the camels back. Is there any comfort to be had in knowing that if i do have HPV (which i probably do) that my husband and i can never have a normal sex life again? The sad thing is the girls we slept with had the serious type of HPV, the high risk. Doesn't this mean that if i do have HPV that it is probably the same type of high risk HPV? And that being the case, if I stay with my husband our sex life would be destroyed by the fact that i could continually be exposed to a dangerous HPV which would be likely to give me cancer?

Your husband will eventually buil up antibodies that kills the virus and stop spreading it in about a year or two. The information is sketchy but you both already have the same virus and you CAN'T spread it back and forth, once you have it, you have it. There is no cure for HPV. You need to see your OBGYN and get a Pap test. It will probably coem back as abnormal which is common with HPV. You can have yoru cells removed and have regulat pap tests so you don't get cancer. The only problem is there are no tests for men. His body will hopefully remove the virus on its own withing 2 years. See yoru OBGYN and ask them about if your husband can retransmit it to you and I bet they say NO. GL and God bless! I just found out my wife gave it to me and its a scary feeling. Get regular cancer screenings early detection has a higher cure rate.  

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