boogie98, njoynlife is probably THE most expert you will find on the subject. I'm very glad he joined this dicussion. Listen to what he tells you, he won't steer you wrong. I'm going to sit back and watch and see if I can learn a thing or two myself.
I got a lot of it from Playboy Magazine. They actually have/had a lot more than pictures of girls with abnormally big boobs and no sex organs (just black patches of air brushed on hair). Their articles were our main source of serious information when I was young. Sex-ed was a few decades off in the future.
We didn't have computers so we really did get together to compare our bodies. Boys really played with each other. So we got first hand knowledge about what other guys looked like. Strangely, if you read about the number of guys here who never pulled their foreskin back, I never knew a kid who couldn't or didn't. Some of the kids were circumcised and we all knew the difference. I was surprised to learn the circumcised kids heads were not sensitive like mine.
Some of it I learned from experience and some from the research I did looking for answers to questions on the forum. There really is a lot of good information available on the net after you wade through all the BS.
I hang around here because I feel bad for the young people who are so worried about the normal things they encounter growing up. It's like they're lost in the woods because no one ever told them what they need to know.
We didn't have computers so we really did get together to compare our bodies. Boys really played with each other. So we got first hand knowledge about what other guys looked like. Strangely, if you read about the number of guys here who never pulled their foreskin back, I never knew a kid who couldn't or didn't. Some of the kids were circumcised and we all knew the difference. I was surprised to learn the circumcised kids heads were not sensitive like mine.
Some of it I learned from experience and some from the research I did looking for answers to questions on the forum. There really is a lot of good information available on the net after you wade through all the BS.
I hang around here because I feel bad for the young people who are so worried about the normal things they encounter growing up. It's like they're lost in the woods because no one ever told them what they need to know.
I tryed pulling it back i got it back to where i saw some of crack and I couldnt pull.When it got to the certain spot it was hard to pull
boogie, can you explain why it was hard to pull?
Did it feel like it was stuck to the head or the opening wasn't big enough. Njoynlife can help you fix these problems. We'll just try to have the information ready for him when he gets back.
boogie, theres nothing to be afraid of here. sometimes this happens. all its going to take is a little work for you and a little time and before long youll have that foreskin back. just relax. this isnt a big deal. you just need to know what to do.
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And when i slid it down i got to where it was sower to side thats when i got scared
Can you clarify that? I can't figure out what "sower" is supposed to be.
When you pull it back does it hurt when you stop or do you stop because you get scared? It may be stuck because it's never been pulled away from your glans and it's dried up the smegma in there acting like glue. If it doesn't hurt just keep going slowly and keep it soaked in water. See if you can work some water in or under it along your glans using your fingers. Just keep working at it. If you find it hurting somewhere, try to see what it is. If the tip of your foreskin is too small you will need to stretch it. That's not as horrible as it sounds. With your foreskin forward, can you get a finger inside it?
Guest ----- why don't you sign up so I know if I'm talking to one person or several. You seem to be quite knowledgeable. Right now it looks like we may have three or four "guests" here? It's much easier if I know the posts are all from one person.
When you pull it back does it hurt when you stop or do you stop because you get scared? It may be stuck because it's never been pulled away from your glans and it's dried up the smegma in there acting like glue. If it doesn't hurt just keep going slowly and keep it soaked in water. See if you can work some water in or under it along your glans using your fingers. Just keep working at it. If you find it hurting somewhere, try to see what it is. If the tip of your foreskin is too small you will need to stretch it. That's not as horrible as it sounds. With your foreskin forward, can you get a finger inside it?
Guest ----- why don't you sign up so I know if I'm talking to one person or several. You seem to be quite knowledgeable. Right now it looks like we may have three or four "guests" here? It's much easier if I know the posts are all from one person.
*slower*and yes i can maybe.but my head feels funny and i get a a feeling on my head
theyre all me njoynlife. as you know i cant sign up. its dutch.
boogie, thats normal. the head is sensitive. its ok. as long as there is no pain youre fine. just dont be afraid. once you get that pulled back youll wonder in a day or two what you was afraid of.
From what you said so far it doesn't sound like anything is wrong, just a matter of getting your nerve up. Unless you jerk it back hard or if there is pain and you try to force it back from that point you're not going to hurt anything. Just slowly pull it all the way back until something stops it. If something stops it before you get it all the way back try to figure out where it's at.
Ok i did it like a man BUT when i got to a certain point,it looked like my skin was attached.What do i do?
It appears that somehow someone unsubscribed me from a bunch of topics I was subscribed to. There have been 5 posts to this one since I posted last and I have received NO reply notices. I also found some others while going through "posts since last visit" that had new replies and I got no notices. At first I thought it might be because of the age of the topic as the first one was quite old but this topic isn't.
Try soaking it while it's back that far and try to loosen it. It may just be stuck there. You saw what the frenulum looks like in the picture. It's not that is it?