I've been worried for about a week.
I'm 19 and lost my V recently to my boyfriend. Last week, we had intercourse four times: on the 12th, 13th and two on the 18th; all of them with protection. My period ended on the 9th, and my vaginal discharges were normal (mainly yellow fluid, flaky when dried). The problem is, I've been feeling tugging feelings on my abdomen and my breasts feel bigger. I think I'm ovulating, since it was predicted for this weekend, but I'm extremely irregular (my cycle now is 39 days long) and I'm afraid I've ovulated too soon.
The chance I could be pregnant pops up in my mind from time to time, because, even having protected intercourse, with my BF pulling out before he ejaculated inside the condom (since we're afraid it will tear), we recur to masturbation to pleasure each other. Some of those times he ejaculated first and I helped him to clean up the "mess". Then, he went on fingering me (fingers cleaned, of course), but I keep on worrying there's a slight chance he still had sperm on his hands.
Taking all this into account, what are the odds of being pregnant?
Hello, it sounds to me that you guys did practice safe sex. I mean, with all that into account, the odds of you being pregnant are absolutely zero. There is no way you could get pregnant like that. You guys used a condom and a pull out method. I know lots of people who are just using a pull out and they never had any issues with pregnancy nor do they have any children. So you are fine, dont worry. Sperm dies when in contact with air, so it does not matter even if he cums on his hand and then fingers you. My gf tells me that girls who have their cycle regularly and without any changes are extremely rare. Its probably because your body is adjusting to a new state, since you lost your V. Medications and drugs, anxiety, stress and flu could also cause you to be late. Hope this helps