Hi Guest,
You can't hide a pregnancy for nine months. Even if you did, you'd still have to deal with it then.
Please, please, please, report this to the police. You were raped! Rape is a crime, your boyfriends friend or not. He forced himself upon you. What if he does it to someone else! No means NO!
There is evidence, DNA from the baby.
You did nothing wrong. From your description you may have been drugged.
Talk to your parents or an adult that you trust. Then contact the police. You were a victim.
Please talk with your parents regarding this. You were raped. You are not at fault. Please talk with your parents, they can help you through this.
Think of how you felt at the time and how you feel now would you want another girl to feel this way?
You really must tell someone hunny then go to the police and report it, i know there will be a lot of difficult questions but your have plenty of support.
Im sure you won't loose your friends either when they know what happened to you and as for you boyfriend if he really lover you if will stand by you no matter what even hid it was his friend because who what's a friend that treats girls like that!
I hope everything works out ok for you hun and please be brave and tell someone or you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Hi Guest,
Talk to the police. They'll tell you what they need.
Your boyfriend sounds like a good man, he's a keeper! Listen to him please.
I dont know how the police will in on seeing as it happened 2 months ago but they will be very understanding and should get you any help you need.
Good luck hun and dont be scared because if you dont go your regret it later in life.
It is extremely important that you tell the police as soon as possible. You should tell your parents before you tell the police so you have support other than your boyfriend. The longer you wait, the more complicated the situation becomes. For one, the stress could be detrimental to the health of your baby and you (also, it would be smart to start taking prenatal vitamins). I wish that I could say that telling the police and your parents won't be scary, but it will be. The important thing is to fight for yourself. What happened to you was a crime and he is a criminal. Be brave girl! You already have the support of many.
I agree with some of the other replies. You need to talk to a trusted adult. You were raped because you said no and told him to stop. You can file a report with the police and they can get evidence because of the baby. Boyfriends come and go so if he can not help and support you through this hard time he does not deserve to be with you through the good times.
As far as the baby goes your not going to be able to hid it for very much longer. Pretty soon morning sickness will set in and foods will make you very sick. You will gain weight in your stomache and even with baggy clothes be hard to hid. So telling your parents sooner than later is better. Also your only 15 would have the baby at 16 so not keeping the baby would probably be in your best interest in my opinion. If you do not want to abort the baby there is tons of great couples out there who would love to have a baby but unable to get pregnant. Most adoption agencies will tell you everything from a-z about how it works and even show you couples pictures and bios. They arrange for you to meet them and you know that the baby is going to a good home and you can even do an open or closed adoption. Just something to think about.
If you want someone to talk to make yourself an account on here and you can pm me any time and I'll get back to you :-)
I happy that we have helped you and been able to give you the support you need.
Would like to know how you get on when you talk to your parents about it and how they react because i think you have been really grown up the way you have come here for advice and taken on board what we have said.
WHAT THIS BASTARD HAS DONE IS VERY SHAMEFUL FOR ALL OF US,THIS SHOULDNOT HAPPEN BE COURAGEOUS YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT,BE COURAGEOUS REPORT TO POLICE WITH YOUR PARENTS OR WITH YOUR BOY FRIEND,CALL GOOD DOCTOR NEAR BY YOU OR WRITE ME ON MY EMAIL ID ;
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