SO I ALREADY POSTED A TOPIC ABOUT ME & MY BOYFRINED BUT THIS ONE I JUST WANNA EXPLAIN EVERY THING: THE ONE THING THAT KILLS ME THE MOST IS THAT THERE IS HARDLY ANY COMMUNICATIO BETWEEN US WELL ON HIS PART THAT IS. SO HE WENT TO ATLANTA FOR 2WEEKS TO BE WITH HIS FAMILY HE CALL ME ONLY 1 TIME OUT OF THOSE 2WEEKS (CAN U BELIVE THAT!) AND TEXT A LIL BIT. SO I WAS LIKE WELL LET ME MAKE A EFFORT AND SAY SOMETHING SO I TEXT HIM HE TEXT ME BACK 3HOURS LATER BUT THE NEXT 2 DAYS HE TEXT AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE LOVES ME SO I WAS LIKE OK THAT MAD ME FEEL A LIL BETTER BUT THE NEXT WEEK I TEXT HIM AND HE DIDNT SAY ANY THING BUT 3 DAYS LATER HE EMAIL ME AND ASK ME AM I OK( BLANK STARE) SO I PLAYED IT OFF SAYING IM COOL BUT REALLY IM p*****f AT HIM BUT I DIDNT TELL HIM THAT CAUSE IM WAITING FOR HIM TO CALL SO I CAN TELL HIM HOW I FEEL BUT. HE HAVENT EVEN CALL AND HE ON HIS WAY BACK TOMORROW. IM SO FED UP WITH THIS TILL THE POINT I FEEL LIKE TELLING HIM THAT MAYBE WE SHOULD PART IF HE'S GONNA KEEP ON DOING THIS. IM TRIED OF HIS ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** I DONT ASK FOR ALOT ALL I WANT IS FOR HIM TO CALL AND TALK TO ME MORE THATS NOT ASKING ALOT JUST THAT SIMPLE LIL THING AND HE CANT EVEN DO THAT. AND I FEEL LIKE FROM THE WAY HES ACTING THAT HE DONT WANNA BE WITH ME ANY MORE HE HAVENT SAID THAT BUT THAT'S THE FEELING IM GETTING AND IM KINDA SCARED OF THAT BECAUSE HE'S MY 1ST LOVE 1ST REALTIONSHIP U KNOW. IM JUST HURT MORE THAN ANY THING BECASUE I FEEL LIKE I GAVE SO MUCH TO HIM AND NOT ONCE IS HE GIVING TO ME I DAMN NEAR BENT OVER BACKWARDS TO PLEASE HIM GOING THROUGH PAIN WORRYING MY SELF SICK AND WHAT DO I GET... STAB IN THE BACK :cry: SIGH.. I DONT NO WAT TO DO SHOULD I TRY & MAKE IT WORK OR JUST GIVE UP ON IT SHOULD I CALL OR TEXT HIM?... :cry: PLEASE SOME ONE GIVE ADVICE BECAUSE I NEED IT
Have you been with him long? I went though the same thing once with my first love, we were only together for a year, but i gave my world to him. Wen we were going together I didn't say a word to him about anything cause i was afraid of being a bad girlfriend. But soon I realized that after we parted, that I was probably the best thing that would ever happen to him. I eventually told him how I felt months and months after we broke up, and he couldn't even say anything he was so ashamed of himself, and knew that it was the truth. The whole time I let him walk all over me, and never said a word about it. One thing I didn't do was get him to talk about our issues even if it was something he was blind about seeing, which kinda sounds like wats going on. The best advice I could give you is, talk to him. Communication is KEY!!! Thats one thing I never did, and I feel like what if? So try laying it on him gentle if you wanna work things out. Tell him everything you feel, and see where it goes from there, but do it in person, not over the phone or text, cause thats a recipe for disaster, it's best done in person. Since the break up I had with my first which was verry similar to yours. I met my soul mate, and made sure I don't keep my mouth closed.ever. And it's all about just being youself really. When something bothers you just say it. Good Luck
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just for a few months . thats what im afraid of to because i dont want him to think that im nagging but i dont want him to be like well she dont seem mad about cause she didnt say any thing and he do it again. i do wanna talk wit him in preson but i feel like im the one that allways have to make the 1st move with calling him but in order for me to fix this, well try to fix it is to call but i dont no what to say when i call him like how to start the conversation off u know.