Hello,
I had tight skin, unable to pull the "head" completely, until 2 days ago.
The streaching works, worm water, and do it regulary, it took me 1 month, now i can pull like every other person.
I also had extremely sensitive glands, at first i thought it hurts when touched, then i read the suggestions online, how rubbing it makes it less sensitive, and its true, month ago, whiling still trying to streach, i also started to rub the glands, to reduce the sensitivity.
At first it felt painful, now a month after, the sensitivity is reduced by a lot, i no longer feel pain, its still little over sensitive tho, but i think in 1 more month it'll go away, leaving the pleasent feeling only xD.
Don't give up guys, just do it regulary, don't over do it, and be patient.
I bet you all wonder "Where are our parents to tell us this", yeah, i still blame them.
Years of shame, i didn't even want to get a girlfriend, because i knew i'll have to have sex, and it will be painful for me, resulting in even more emberassment.
Now i got a girlfriend that helps me with it, after knowing that this pain is temporary and as long as i keep with the exercises i will succeed.
Dont give up.
For some reason it's difficult for parents to talk to their kids about anything sexual except to say "don't do it". I think it has to do with society's attitude about it. Supposedly we began sex ed in school to cure thh problem but if they designed a course that would really be helpful I'm sure the parents would kill it, saying it was pornographic.
This site seems to be a very good place in my opinion to get the information but being the internet it is full of misinformation too.
I found a British (i think) site that showed a class of girls and boys being shown the differences that are all normal. They had five naked females who were chosen to show the different breast and vulvular shapes and in another one they had five males showing the different sizes and appearance of a circumcised guy also. After they got past the giggles at the beginning I think they learned some valuable information.
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Oh thank god i thought i was the only one. I am really afraid about having sex and if it will hurt. I started pulling my foreskin back when i urinate about a year ago and whenever i touch it it hurts very very much i will post anything that works for me
for a temporary fix use lidocaine/prilocain i think they might need to go togethor in the cream
aftera half hour its pretty num i think first timers give in an hour to work i relate to my a abbove comment
The pain can be tolerated, start by placing your tumb on your penis head and hold it there, you will see that the pain will go away, but when you start moving it, you will experience it again, i can't tell for the rest, but for me the pain was not bigger than a pinch, you're making it sound like your being slaughtered, i know it can be troublesome, some people recommend first using your shower, you'll feel some "pain", but do it each time you take a shower and it'll go away, then you can start touching it like i suggested.
Took me a month to workout the streching problem, and in a second month atm working on the sensitivity, its still not comfortable but i feel no pain.