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I have read the whole thread since the first post from 2005. Unfortunately I have the same problem as you. Since I was a baby I have always complained of glans sensitivity as you do. I remember to cry when my mom rubbed her sponge over my naked penis during bath time. Even I am older than anyone of you here I can still feel that pain along right now.
I put this problem off for many years but now I am getting older and I have decided to face it to any cost and even I will never be in working order as many other ”insensitive” men I am gonna fight working on the problem.
After many vain do-it-yourself methods I am finding a little of relief with a therapy using the following products:
1) One pair of latex gloves;
2) Vaseline;
3) Personal care soap with menthol.
Put your gloves (be sure they are clean) and then dip the index finger in the Vaseline. Spread it gently on you glans and begin to rub softly till you have covered the whole surface. As soon as possible the pain will disappear and you will feel comfortable even you have to be careful the rubbing movements.
As you go on you will be able to retract the whole foreskin. Indeed my full relief was broken from new zones of the glans which were covered and now uncovered. Yeah for I have found out that some parts as the bottom of my glans including the crown and the skin around the crown were more sensitive than the top of my penis and that made me feel very uncomfortable (psychologically too). I think I should apply some much more Vaseline over there than the top.
Anyway after the treatment get your naked penis under the faucet and while you keep it soaked take the liquid soap with menthol and begin to wash to wipe off the greasy tracks of Vaseline. Menthol is like a anesthetic to the glans and you will not feel anything at all. Rinse e replace your foreskin. Cheers!
I know it is not like being delivered from this physiological exaggerated sensitivity but somehow I think a good relationship might go fine.
Please let me know about those methods, especially if you test it in your relationship and in case you have something better share it. Sharing is very helpful physiologically as well.
Strength and honor gladiators.
When i wear a condom there is no pain so i'm stuck with that.
Similarly the only cure for phimosis is to pull back the foreskin. There is no need for surgery, just pull back as far as it will go when flaccid every time you pee and before you sleep. After a couple of weeks you'll find you're able to pull it back fully when flaccid. Then carry on until you can do so when erect.
I suffered from both of these things, and patience saw me through. :D
I'm 32 and have had this problem my whole life. I went to the doctor said surgery was an option but didnt recommend it.
I found the best thing to do for me was to pull the foreskin back be for i go to sleep. Your night time ereaction will help stretch the fore skin and will also help make the head less sensitive since it will rub against your underwear. The forskin will get swollen due to the extended amount of time of blood or something being trapped in it from being pulled back, but it shouldnt cause any damage. If it bothers you stop. This worked well for me. Now when remember i try to upll skin back in underwear as others have suggested.
Just 2 cents will it ever be perfect no but all you can do is keep working on it. I was getting a blow job last night and i thought i was going to hit the roof it was so sensitive, but i have been neglecting my own advice and had been single for a while.
good luck guys
I had problems similar to yours, with the penis head overly sensitive, this will definitely ease the pain sensation, & mildly numb it down naturally but only to a point, and if you can manage to have intercourse it also serves as a natural lube, Believe me it had worked for me, and I got my sex life back because of this Coconut oil that I use, and I can't live without it, but make sure its organic extra virgin! You buy it at a local natural health store. Good luck! I hope it works for you guys......
This thread has helped me, and even inspired me to self-heal this problem that doctors seem so hopeless about. I had two doctors of different specialities to examine my penis, and said it probably was normal but had no solutions to fix the it. After that they put me in the "Nerve pain" -department and told me to relax about it. And the people there dare to call themselves professionals!
When one has got past the "foreskin-problem", and the glance is totally visible, I suggest ALL OF YOU still suffering from over-sensitivity, to touch and keep touching it no matter how bad it hurts! That is the only, or at least one of the few solutions to cure this mysterious problem! You will see progress, but the progress is slow and requires much patience! There are times when this problem will beat you down and you think you'll never have able to have sex -> self-esteem reduction -> fear to go out with women. So it's a psychological problem too.
There is still one spot on my glance that is very sensitive, and it feels pretty bad to touch it. But still, I keep touching it more and more and it becomes better every day. Vaseline has sped up the process of desencitizing it - it feels better to rub it when it's not all dried up.
Once again, I want to thank all of you for sharing your problems and solutions towards this problem! You are the real-life doctors, I tell you!