the first time i had sex it was so painful,, set me back years... u have to basically pull the skin back and slowly and gently touch the head until the sensitivity reduces. it will be extremely painful at first but over time it will get better. try lub, that may help reduce the pain.. when masterbating make sure you always pull skin back..the process will take time.
Well if you want to do it in a month you have to grin and bare it. The only way to do it that fast is to keep it bare keep it dry and touch it all the time. You can keep it back while it's in your pants using a rubber band. Pull it back put the rubber band around it at the base to hold it back. Put one twist in the band and put the other end under your balls. That will hold it back pretty well if you use the right size band. When you have time to work on it in person I recommend pulling it back as far as you can, clean it off using rubbing alcohol on a cotton ball, gently. Don't rub it in you're only cleaning the skin oil off so it will be easy to slide your fingers over it without them sticking. Then gently slide your fingers all over it until you can't stand it anymore and keep doing it for another 5 minutes. Do that as many times a day as you can find time for and when you go to bed keep doing it until you fall asleep. Be sure to leave it bare when you sleep because in the morning it will be a lot less sensitive. As the sensitivity goes away you will love dry rubbing it. It feels so good rubbing the bare head when it's clean and dry that's the only way I do it since I desensitized mine over 40 years ago. I look forward to the feeling of the alcohol too. It feels cold at first, then warm, then it tingles and makes your erection feel like it's going to pop your glans right open. So have fun and maybe you could get her to help you it's supposed to be a game where you both do each other while reaching the top.
Hello guys, I’ve read so many things about this problem. I am 22 years old and I pretty much have the same issue that made me afraid and really low confidence for my whole teenage life and college life. My foreskin can pull back a little bit harder when I am erructed but it goes back. But my glans hurts when i touch it except sometimes when is erructed or a little bit wet. I visited a doctor last Monday and told me I has a midly mycitiasis and gave me some pills for 7 days. Also told me that next time he might cut my frenulum breve to help my glans get better. But I’m so afraid because when the tip of my glans touches my underwear I feel discomfort and some pain. Do you know any good salve i can use to reduce the pain? Or any way that will help me reduce it until my glans becomes more strong? Im trying to touch it for a while sometimes gets bettter sometimes its the same especially when its dry.. thank you in advance
Hi, if you keep the glands clean and dry by keeping your foreskin back you will find that they will be less painful as they won't stick to everything and the skin that covers the glands will thicken up the same as on a circumsised guy, every guy that's not been circumsised at a very young age will find it painful when the glands are uncovered untill that first layer of skin that covers the glands gets thicker and there really isn't much you can do other than just put up with it, even if you was to use a numbing cream your still going to have to apply it to the bare glands what will cause discomfort and even that would only numb the area for about an hour so hardly worth it,
Is it because the opening of your foreskin is tight you find it hard to pull it back easily or is it because your frenulum is to short? If it's due to tightness then there are stretching exercises you can do to improve that, if you would like to know how to do them feel free to ask and one of us will explain what and how to do them.
Is it because the opening of your foreskin is tight you find it hard to pull it back easily or is it because your frenulum is to short? If it's due to tightness then there are stretching exercises you can do to improve that, if you would like to know how to do them feel free to ask and one of us will explain what and how to do them.
Clean and dry is the best way to becoming less sensitive. If you put any salve on it that will just make it take longer and when the numbing wears off it will be sticky so it hurts even more. If your doctor feels your frenulum is too short and you are not afraid to have him/her relieve that, by all means do it!!! If that will allow your foreskin to be able to retract all the way that is the best. Mine tore by itself but now it allows my foreskin to back completely with no tension and that is the best feeling possible. When the tip touches your underwear it is probably the inner part of your urethra that hurts the most and that will take a bit longer to desensitize but it will get there. Just keep on touching/rubbing the dry glans and you will get the results you want. In fact it will become pleasurable and you will enjoy it.
Hello guys, thank you so much for the answers! So my doc said that the frenulum is tight and sometimes keeps my fireskin from uncovering easily..that for me it’s fine and i’m going to do it in a couple of days..so the think i was doing to strength my glans was i was pulling in down and start touching a little bit, if it hurt i tried again but with putting some water drops on the tip of my fingers, is that wrong? Or should I pull it down leave it there for a while and thats it? Because when it gets sticky is really painfull :/
Or if anyone can tell me steps of how to desensitize it properly and how long it might take?
As we said if you keep the glands clean and dry they will be less painfully to touch, as the skin dries up the outer layer thickens making it less sensitive, how long it takes to happen no one can say exactly as it's down to how clean and dry and exposed you can keep it. There are no proper steps to desensitizes the glands other than what we have said really, as for keeping your foreskin back all the time I would only do that if it isn't tight around the back of the glands.
Thank you so much for the answers. This problem has caused me a lot of trouble over the years and I got really anxious about it. I already started trying these stuff and I noticed that when I’m erructed it’s easier for me to touch or rub a little my glans, when its soft it’s harder but I started trying to get it there ;)
As I said it can take some time to actually notice any difference depending on how much effort you put in keeping the glands clean, dry and gently rubbing it, njoynlife has said before that he used rubbing alcohol to clean his glands and remove that sticky layer but I have no experience of that method, I'm sure if you would like to know more about it he wouldn't mind if you sent him a pm and asked.
What do you mean you wrapped it in toiler paper? Like the whole head of the penis or just the frenulum?
Just the frenulum where it was torn. Then I rolled the foreskin back over it.
I was uncircumcised until about 1 year ago. After the surgery, the sensitivity was unbearable to me, I was at home for two months without leaving the house.. without underwear!! It was such a difficult two months in my life! However, I decided that I had to through some pain in order to get my life back. I bought a roll of cotton bandage, cut a 12 inch piece, and roll it around my penis, taped it with cloth medical tape. I have been doing this for the past year, and it has gradually decensitized my glans, the edges of my glans (which were so painful) and the tip, called the meatus. Now, I am feeling so much better. I also used lots of coconut oil, rubbed it with oil almost daily (masturbating in the process) and that too has helped a lot!!!
The reason why it's been so sensitive for so long is simply because you have been using coconut oil that is keeping the tip layers of skin soft rather than letting them thicken therefore taking sensitivity away faster.
I have to agree with that, keeping it moist while not allowing it to touch anything just keeps it sensitive. You could have put those two months to good use and it would probably be fine by now. I desensitized mine just because I was tired of it being so sensitive but I am not circumcised. I pulled the foreskin all the way back, cleaned and dried the exposed glans and began to gently rub it all over for as long and as much as I could stand. I did that as often as I could, at least several times a day. In a few days it was less sensitive so I could apply more pressure and do it longer. Soon rubbing it became very pleasurable and I was able to masturbate by dry rubbing it which made me want to do it even more. It only took me about two months. Now, many years later I will not even think of masturbating any way but pulled back tight and dry rubbing.
So get rid of that oil, clean and dry it and start touching and rubbing. You will discover the best masturbation you have ever felt. When you are done you will love the feeling of your bare glans rubbing against your clothing.
So get rid of that oil, clean and dry it and start touching and rubbing. You will discover the best masturbation you have ever felt. When you are done you will love the feeling of your bare glans rubbing against your clothing.