Hi 'Guest'
As is compulsory on here when anyone mentions sex, "be responsible and wear a condom!".
And yeh, I'd love to know how you get on with your desensitising process.
Look forward to hearing from you :-D
As is compulsory on here when anyone mentions sex, "be responsible and wear a condom!".
And yeh, I'd love to know how you get on with your desensitising process.
Look forward to hearing from you :-D
my gf is first year medical student and she has been learning this sort of stuff in anatomy. he asked me about it last night, why i never exposed the head of my penis. i didnt know what to say, i thought up till last night that a lot of people didnt expose the head of their penis, but now i might have phimosis? i cant pull my foreskin back and god knows i dont want to, we enjoy great sex, blowjobs handjobs, everything normal, she has always know not to expose my head but we never tlked about it. everything works fine for me but i knw if my head was exposed and i touched it it would absoultely kill with pain. i understand it would be sensitive as ive never touched it properly before untill today (ffs arrrgggjouch) but im sort of in the mind set, if its not broken dont fix it. my gf wants me to go see the doctor which i will, but the thought of stretching my foreskin and making the head of my penis less sensitive to the pain, that whole process absolutely terrifies me, i dont want to lose my sex life for months while it sit in the bath proding my penis to build up a resistance of pain thats never efffected me. i understand that its more hygeneic to expose the penis and wash it, but i wash my foreskin after peeing and ejaculating without fail. without treatment though i think i could be on the path for an infection... im really angry at my parents for not explaining to me how to keep my penis, my dad should have told me to retract my foreskin, thats how people are meant to learn. im soooo nervous about this whole thing. ive been having regular sex for two years and masterbating for about 8 and untill last night i thought i was normal...
i've just turned 20 and i've always had a very sensitive glans. i didn't realise it was a problem until i was 16 and i'd have to be so careful during sex not to retract my foreskin otherwise it would cause much much more pain than pleasure. just recently i had a dorsal slit as i thought the problem was tight foreskin, though last night i had my first oral sex since the op and was disappointed that it was still mostly too painful to enjoy, despite my foreskin retracting much easier. BUT just now I read and acted on what someone else wrote about exposing the glans and moving around underwear, and I am seriously amazed. It was uncomfortable to move around for about one minute, but just the light rubbing of the underwear has totally desensitised it and but right now for the first time in my life i feel comfortable with my glans exposed. if you've had this same problem (and it's not going to cause you TERRIBLE pain) i really really urge you to just try this right now, as uncomfortable as it seems at first.
sorry a couple of typos in my last message just above.. i meant exposing the glans and moving around IN underwear
Hey im the guy that posted 5 posts above , I came back to tell ya about my progress. It is almost sure that THAT day is coming , and the results still aren't what I wanted 'em to be. Though , yes , it helps. It's been almost a month since my last post , I haven't actively every day attempted to desensitize it , but .. I feel the difference, it almost doesnt hurt at all when I touch the head , and with wet fingers even less. But if I try to rub it against something .. oh god :cry:
Don't think I could push my penis into vagina without HUGE pain , since the pushing inside itself causes to rub the penis on walls of vagina and that would hurt so much, I'd scream like b***h.
Well , if I would tell it myself, in about 25 days or so , the results are:
[Before: Touching - HURTS
Rubbing - HURTS
Exposed in pants - f**k , IT HURTS!]
[Now: Touching - Nothing
Rubbing - Hurts
Exposed in pants: Hurts a bit]
There's definitely some signs of success.
From today on , I will start with trying to leave it exposed inside my pants. Yes , I tried , it hurts when you pull ur pants and stuff, also you walk a little strange on beginning , but it is not that bad! Also , should try to play more with penis while having shower or something, in hope that the sensitivity will be removed.
If anyone got the same problem and is reading this , try what I told ya , it won't disappoint you I believe and let us know the results.
I'll visit back here to see the answers.
// bite22
Don't think I could push my penis into vagina without HUGE pain , since the pushing inside itself causes to rub the penis on walls of vagina and that would hurt so much, I'd scream like b***h.
Well , if I would tell it myself, in about 25 days or so , the results are:
[Before: Touching - HURTS
Rubbing - HURTS
Exposed in pants - f**k , IT HURTS!]
[Now: Touching - Nothing
Rubbing - Hurts
Exposed in pants: Hurts a bit]
There's definitely some signs of success.
From today on , I will start with trying to leave it exposed inside my pants. Yes , I tried , it hurts when you pull ur pants and stuff, also you walk a little strange on beginning , but it is not that bad! Also , should try to play more with penis while having shower or something, in hope that the sensitivity will be removed.
If anyone got the same problem and is reading this , try what I told ya , it won't disappoint you I believe and let us know the results.
I'll visit back here to see the answers.
// bite22
Hi again 'Guest', its nice to hear from you again :-)
Of course its up to you how far you want to go with it but I would say your pretty much there.
If you get to the point where you'll be able to rub it up against something without feeling anything, you will have lost all sensitivity. You may want to keep some as its quite a turn on.
I think you'd get on better than you think with the sex. I can't say for certain, I've never done it but its 'reportedly' ( ;-) ) very wet in there and if you lube up as well you should be fine.
Of course its up to you how far you want to go with it but I would say your pretty much there.
If you get to the point where you'll be able to rub it up against something without feeling anything, you will have lost all sensitivity. You may want to keep some as its quite a turn on.
I think you'd get on better than you think with the sex. I can't say for certain, I've never done it but its 'reportedly' ( ;-) ) very wet in there and if you lube up as well you should be fine.
Hey Kingfreeze , it's your "guest" again here
Thank you for support it gives me some confidence rly
@topic:
I noticed that the rubbing from day to day, even tho its painful , becomes kinda enjoyable , really. And only touching the penis , is not painful anymore. I'm feeling the success slowly , but yet ... problems and questions.
I have found out that the amount of pain when I rub it against something , differs from material.
Like , if i rub it against some clothes, it's different than rubbing it against my leg or something ... kinda funny to ask , but , anyone can tell me is there any difference with vagina? .. like , the inside-of-vagina , its not the same "material" as skin i suppose ...
Also , during oral sex , since my situation is like this , should I leave the head exposed or ? ... Cuz idk how it would feel if she touched it with teeth accidently or something .. i think it'd be hell...
//bite22
Thank you for support it gives me some confidence rly
@topic:
I noticed that the rubbing from day to day, even tho its painful , becomes kinda enjoyable , really. And only touching the penis , is not painful anymore. I'm feeling the success slowly , but yet ... problems and questions.
I have found out that the amount of pain when I rub it against something , differs from material.
Like , if i rub it against some clothes, it's different than rubbing it against my leg or something ... kinda funny to ask , but , anyone can tell me is there any difference with vagina? .. like , the inside-of-vagina , its not the same "material" as skin i suppose ...
Also , during oral sex , since my situation is like this , should I leave the head exposed or ? ... Cuz idk how it would feel if she touched it with teeth accidently or something .. i think it'd be hell...
//bite22
i was like you guys. What i did to get better was ever day with warm shower stretch the foreskin of the penis back as much as possible without pain do it about 3 times a day. It will hurt at first but then it will start feeling better and better, then all the pain will be gone with time.
Me to it suks
me too have the very sensitive glans. but the pain gone lower when my penis comes full hard its feel good when you got exited.
so don`t fear and take it possitive
so don`t fear and take it possitive
Hey guys,
I have the same problom as you all.
im 19 old, 3 months ago a whent into relationships with a man(yes im gay)
befor that taking the foreskin off woes a pain in the ass. i could only do it when i wosnt in eraction and the head is wery sensitive..
but after i whent in relationship the first month woes a lot of BJ, and one moment i felt something strange and than i realized.. whail i woes having a bj the skin whent down.. you cant imagine how happy i woes, but than coms the sensitivity... from one side it kinda felt good but only for a secafter it woes a real turnoff.. now my skin moves freely thanks to bj :-D now i only have to deal with the sensitivity... i woes experimenting and i found out that it dosnt hort when it touches fabric only other body parts, well i hope thats a +...
So yeah gona try what others suggested and maybe ill update with the progres..
P.s soory for my english
P.s.s for thoes whoe hate gays.. soory , but i hate gays that act like girls,shemales or just weirdo gays.. only thing that makes me gay is that i like man and what i do in my bedroom in the rest way im a normal man... and i even like girls only i cant go into sexual relationship with them... anyways i didnt choose it
I have the same problom as you all.
im 19 old, 3 months ago a whent into relationships with a man(yes im gay)
befor that taking the foreskin off woes a pain in the ass. i could only do it when i wosnt in eraction and the head is wery sensitive..
but after i whent in relationship the first month woes a lot of BJ, and one moment i felt something strange and than i realized.. whail i woes having a bj the skin whent down.. you cant imagine how happy i woes, but than coms the sensitivity... from one side it kinda felt good but only for a secafter it woes a real turnoff.. now my skin moves freely thanks to bj :-D now i only have to deal with the sensitivity... i woes experimenting and i found out that it dosnt hort when it touches fabric only other body parts, well i hope thats a +...
So yeah gona try what others suggested and maybe ill update with the progres..
P.s soory for my english
P.s.s for thoes whoe hate gays.. soory , but i hate gays that act like girls,shemales or just weirdo gays.. only thing that makes me gay is that i like man and what i do in my bedroom in the rest way im a normal man... and i even like girls only i cant go into sexual relationship with them... anyways i didnt choose it
might be abit late but to guy who said about the foreskin i just went to drs was told its real common and got some cream to stop this he also said try sleeping or leaving head exposed for a log time hope it helps
Hi I got a circumcision Thursday 14th October 2010, I am finding the sensitivity bit real hard too, didn
I see that all of you with sensitive glanas ( as me ) are scared of having sex, becose you think it will hurt ... it doesn't hurt at all, oral also, no pain
I am having the same problem. :? It is the result of my phimosis and limited exposure of the glans. Do not give up, it takes time. Everyday let some air under there. Eventually run water over head in the shower, start with small doses and slowly increase pressure. When it is not as sensitive attempt to wear it skinback inside the pant and underwear. Not sure if this is the solution but it has been helpful for me. good luck