The treatments suggested on this thread really do work!!
About 6 weeks ago, I too could not retract my foreskin, but now I can quite easily when erect! I had also never touched my glans before, but the other day (with the help of baby oil) I successfully ejaculated with my glans exposed (it did hurt).
I began by exposing my glans in the shower, and it absolutely destroyed me to begin with. When stretching my foreskin I made sure to moisturize it using either baby oil, lotion or water, so that the skin wouldn't cut or burn like it has done in the past. I would especially recommend exposing the glans under hot bath water, as it proved a good painkiller, despite being extremely uncomfortable at first.
Persistent 'playing' has worked, and now I have no problem with touching it, though rubbing it still is uncomfortable. I think the key is to not be afraid to push the boundaries of pain, and not to worry that you will damage your glans, because ultimately, it is there to be touched and rubbed!
In around week 2 of my desensitization process, the right side of my glans did swell for a couple of days and it was worrying at the time. When I managed to retract there was puss in the swollen area and even my foreskin seemed 'infected' by the rash. It itched like an absolute bastard, but meant that I could actually rub it, for the first time ever, and I think it helped the process!
I am 18 years old and have never engaged in any sexual activity, but at my age it is becoming incredibly imminent. This process has given me confidence in myself, and I hope to be ready to have sex in another 6 weeks time! Whether I will have sex is different issue altogether though...
All I can say is to be persistent with these excersises, as even if they don't work for all, they definitely work for some! Dont be afraid to properly abuse your penis.. it is definitely no pain no gain. Pushing boundaries is what stretching and desensitization is all about!
My foreskin didn't come back until I was 14. Before then I had a very tight foreskin. When the foreskin came back it was full of smegma that I had to wash off. I found that the head of my penis (the glans) was too sensitive to touch. I'm now 17 and the problem hasn't gone away. The only way I can masturbate is by using my duvet. I can sometimes use thick things like a dressing gown or robe in order to cum.
I'm really worried about it. I haven't had sex yet and I thought that by my age it would have gone. I tried a certain cream from two different doctors. It only lasted 11 days and it never did anything for me. I'm really worried about this because I want to know what exactly I'll be capable of sexually in a few years. There's a girl I like and she told me that she would like to have anal sex with me someday. Wouldn't that be like impossible for me to do considering the anus is even tighter than the vagina? I don't want it to be impossible because I want to do it all but I need advise on these kind of things otherwise it's just going to depress me. :(
Just go back a few replies and read.
I think you have to start easy on urself
then touch t more and more and eventually exposed walking around in underwaer
I think that nothing’s wrong. Join the club. Sensitive penis head is very usual feeling. My friend gave me an advice once so I’ll tell it to you. You should walk around with exposed head of your penis in your underwear and the rubbing on the material will desensitize it.
It's weird.
name wrote:
what about sensitive as in feels overwhelmingly good when touched and makes it harder to controll when you have sex to cum
I have the same question. I have trouble with the same thing. It's just when I masturbate without foreskin, feeling is too good to continue and have to stop for a minute, to be able to continue again.
It's weird.
So what's to complain about when it feels soooo good?
I assume you mean with it pulled back, when you say without foreskin.
Since I desensitized my glans I always pull my foreskin back tight and dry rub the bare glans because it feels great.
Rino01 wrote:
name wrote:
what about sensitive as in feels overwhelmingly good when touched and makes it harder to controll when you have sex to cum
I have the same question. I have trouble with the same thing. It's just when I masturbate without foreskin, feeling is too good to continue and have to stop for a minute, to be able to continue again.
It's weird.
So what's to complain about when it feels soooo good?
I assume you mean with it pulled back, when you say without foreskin.
Since I desensitized my glans I always pull my foreskin back tight and dry rub the bare glans because it feels great.
Yea exactly, but I don't know feeling is too good to continue. Just like he explained in the post, hard to control. My legs start to twitch when I achieve that feeling.
I guess it's a good thing, but thanks for the response!