No just be patient and don't expect to much to soon as it could just be anxiety.
You never answered my question about did you have plenty of foreplay first to help relax her and to also get her wet and turned on so her vagina has relaxed and expanded ready to accept your penis?
You never answered my question about did you have plenty of foreplay first to help relax her and to also get her wet and turned on so her vagina has relaxed and expanded ready to accept your penis?
How often do you masturbate? Most of what you been on my are fake products and they are using those schemes to try and trick people to buy their products . Most guys masturbate on a pretty regular basis and had no problems like black canvas said most of it is probably psychological and will probably resolve as you get more comfortable and experience and your sexual life. When you guys attempt to have sex do you go right at it or do you spend a good amount of time in foreplay?
We spend a good amount on foreplay. Overall I just don't get as hard as I imagine the typical person should be. However I once waited about 4 days without masturbation and I was a little harder. I'm immensely stressed out right now because since our encounter last night, my girlfriend is upset thinking it's her fault and her last boyfriend was a lot harder when they would do anything
Yes we do plenty of foreplay. Here's the thing, I've Been masturbating since probably elementary school, far before any of my friends. And i used to do it everyday if not more. Permenant damage isn't something to worry about?
No I would not worry. If you are stressed you're not going to perform as well. It is very normal for people your age to masturbate every day if not several times and they are generally fine. As long as you were not masturbating by crushing your penis. Or tying rope around it very tight or sticking it in your urethra you should be fine. Did your girlfriend last boyfriend have more sexual experience and have sex in the past? You need to sit and talk with your girlfriend and explain to her what's going on and that has nothing to do with her. And about how stress and anxiety can cause poor performance
Hold on a moment is this the same person as the guest that's posting because here you say your girlfriend is a virgin but your last post above you say her last boyfriend was harder when erect, this isn't making sense now!
Yes it is the same person. And what I mean is when they would do any foreplay he would. She is a virgin still
No he didn't have any sexual experience before. He just got a harder erection when they would engage in foreplay
Ok glad we got that sorted because it was starting to seem like two different people lol if you could sign in as a member every time rather than replying as a guest it makes it less confusing for the ones who reply.
Hardness can also be down to penis size as well a small to average penis will mostly get harder than a large to extra large one because of how much alone needs to be pumped into the chambers of the penis I know you say your pretty thick but you haven't really said how thick or long your penis is.
Another reason you could of had trouble entering your girlfriends vagina and it just slipping away is she may tense up in fear of what it's going to be like causing her vagina entrance muscles to Constrict and make intercourse nearly impossible.
There are so many different things that could cause it on both your parts but only hearing one side the story makes it harder to say exactly why your having problems.
Do you normally finger her when you have foreplay and if so how many do you get inside her? What position have you tried to have sex In with her?
Hardness can also be down to penis size as well a small to average penis will mostly get harder than a large to extra large one because of how much alone needs to be pumped into the chambers of the penis I know you say your pretty thick but you haven't really said how thick or long your penis is.
Another reason you could of had trouble entering your girlfriends vagina and it just slipping away is she may tense up in fear of what it's going to be like causing her vagina entrance muscles to Constrict and make intercourse nearly impossible.
There are so many different things that could cause it on both your parts but only hearing one side the story makes it harder to say exactly why your having problems.
Do you normally finger her when you have foreplay and if so how many do you get inside her? What position have you tried to have sex In with her?
I agree with black canvas there are way too many variables That have not been accounted for to give an accurate explanation at this point
Okay so penis size is about 7 inches long and about 4-5 inches around if I had to guess. And also we've only tried with her on top
That is a good average to slightly above average penis but should have to troubles entering her vagina as long as she is very aroused and wet and relaxed if she is nervous and tense it will make penetration almost impossible
I agree with Biomajor unless she is fully relaxed it will make penetration near impossible.
When she is on top of you does she hold your penis to guide it in?
When she is on top of you does she hold your penis to guide it in?
No I did
It may be better for her to hold it as she will have more feeling where the entrance is.
Are you using condoms or any other form of contraception?
You can also try using a water based lubricant on the head of your penis and around the entrance of her vagina as that should help it slide easier even if she is wet.
Are you using condoms or any other form of contraception?
You can also try using a water based lubricant on the head of your penis and around the entrance of her vagina as that should help it slide easier even if she is wet.