Sore Penis after Ejaculation

Hi everyone,

 

First of all, thanks Zenman and the rest for this thread. I'va also been searching for answers for the past 8 years (I am currently 24) and hope it'll make this post-ejaculation pain go away. I f it is the case, I might be able to get two ejaculations within ten hours, which until now, was almost impossible.

 

Thanks guys and help spreading this thread all over the net!

You will Not have this problem if you take a multivitamin and vitamin c pill each days starting after 4 or 5 days. i dealt with it for years hating life (cuz i wouldnt stop jackin it) and found this out recently, hopefully this will get me into heaven, but it will for sure bring you out of hell. Believe Me, take the vitamins and milk all the fluid out of your penis after ejaculating and you will be fine.

Hi everyone,

thanks for the info and starting this thread, it's sad to read that so many souls are experiencing the same/similar problem as moi.

I am 38 years old and dont really remember exactly what year my problem started. I remember experiencing it before sexual intercoure..maybe around 13-15 years age.

My problem is I feel ache inside penis from base and 1 inch down and then upwards. Most of ache is around base. the ache diminishes further up from base to tip.

THe ache merges about 5-20 minutes after ejaculation. When i massage the area of base I feel the ache/sore but also it feels good, seems like it helps even though ache is still there.

Few times I dont feel any ache or sore...but its rare. It doesnt matter if I masturbate, have sexual intercourse or getting a BJ, ache merges. Something really odd is that few times, rare again, when i have had sex 2nd time or masturbating a 2nd time short after 1st ejaculation it takes away the ache casued by first ejaculation, and I dont feel any ache at all after 2nd time...really strange and rare!!

Done medically:

test fertility, x-ray (called MRI in english I think), took antibiotics, had camera inside penis with no results.

At the moment I am going to a clinic that instruct me in exercises and also had a cortisone shot just above penis. It hasnt improved, but next time I am going back to clinic in august or september I am getting a 2nd shot in same area but a litle highier from last one.

The doctor mentioned that many people experience ache all over the body and similar to mine and that is a "dysfunction". Dysfunctions can be found in any area of the body.

I am going to use the "toothpaste method during this summer and will defenitly post result here. For those who whorries that their penis is to curved and causes that ache/sore need to talk to doctor. Majority of men have, more or leses, crooked penises and its normal, but sometimes it is "too" crooked and need to be examined by a doctor for the sake of it.

For those who masturbates several times a day need to cool down and try for example with one/day for 1 week and than 2 times a day for a week and figure out when the ache'/sore emerges...maybe you know that way if u should hold back the number of times per day or if u have ache even if you masturbate 1/day.

PS

Doctors have told me that tobaco and alkohol and even paint pigemnts in candy etc can cause some type of problems with our machinery downthere, I am not buying that though. Maybe someone else been told same?

-TheScholar-

First off, i am so glad i found this forum. 

I am 23 years old, american, and circumcised. I have been having the exact same painful issues as the ones described here for at least 3 years, but i seem to recall ejaculation being much funner when i was in high school. I also used to be able to ejaculate more than once during sex back then but i can't seem to do it anymore due to the pain after ejaculation. 

Description. 

Gaining an erection is no problem, i am about 7 &1/2 inches or so when fully erect. Orgasms are not painful, but during sex they are sometimes less enjoyable then when i do it solo. I usually thrust while ejaculating during sex, sometimes i do the pause technique. But every time after i ejaculate i get hyper sensitive on my head that makes thrusting no longer enjoyable. Im still very hard and could keep going after i ejaculate. I don't think the pain shows up right after i ejaculate, it takes a little bit while i am going flaccid for it to start to occur.  

The sensation: Feels like someone crushed my penis, i used to think that its because i was having rough sex or my wife's vagina was too tight. (may still play a factor) But on the underside of my entire shaft it is extremely tender and sore, like a bruise. Almost as if the ducts are in pain. The worst spot is directly under the head of the penis on the underside, but the whole shaft feels like the sperm has not left and its bruised at the same time. I've tried icing it after sex, and that only brought temporary relief. The sensation lasts at least 24 hours, sometimes it takes me 3-4 days to recover enough to have a painless erection. The pain is constant while i am flaccid, but standing and moving makes it worse. An erection is so painful that it keeps me up at night and i lose a lot of sleep because of it, also afterwards my erections don't seem to go down. After my first ejaculation, if during the night i get an erection it just stays for hours of excruciating pain. (wish it stayed up that long during sex) It does not matter if i have sex for 5 minutes or for an hour, the pain is always there after ejaculation but the pain is never there if i don't ejaculate. I've noticed that if i do it solo and i shoot, the pain is less. But if i do it solo and i dripple/ooze the pain is more severe. So i think it is directly related to left over sperm. I have a bachelors degree in biology (not that it matters)  and have a few ideas to why our sperm is not leaving the penis completely. I will go into that at a later time.

Things that seem to help me:

Urinating as fast as i can after ejaculation greatly diminishes the pain and recovery time. And urinating frequently, and staying very hydrated. (dehydration my produce a more "sticky" sperm/semen mixture) 

Sticking my penis in the sink, and cuping water in my hand, attempting to put water down my shaft. I think this just cleans the tip but it helps me. (awkward to reach the water directly lol ) 

Thoughts: How big is your penis?

maybe smaller penises are easier to get it all out?

How tight is your wife's vagina? How tight do you hold yourself when you solo?

maybe the constriction holds back the sperm much like a kinked hose?

I've tried a very gentle shooting solo and urinated afterwards, with little to no pain :) 

Has anyone noticed different sex positions that produce less pain?

also maybe our wife's vaginas stop the shooting from occurring, so that most of it does not explode out?

Hi again all,

I have no tested the method that makes all sperms come out and I tried for 10 days sometimes twice a day and almost everyday and

it really is GREAT :)

I dont feel the pain anymore.

I am gonna tell the doctors I have seen in the past years. Maybe they can start searching for better medical solution from here!!!

 

Thanks alot again.

I'm 18 this has been going on since maybe 15 or 16 but as I been looking for answers there has been more than 10 different guys with this problem maybe it is normal I hate it but it is a muscle but soaking doesn't help and it doesn't get stronger so maybe it being a muscle has nothing to do with the situation but I think for myself what started this was ejaculating more than 3 times in 24 hours lol to much porn if there are any true answers someone help us males

I read a few pages of this thread because I too have this same issue. I figured out most of the solutions listed. But the ringing never was necessary becuse I always urinate after sex. Plus for me the pain is there but after a little action it goes away. It's painful but not enough to prohibit sex. Someone mentioned something really interesting about acidic semen - when I was younger (I'm 27) around 18ish I never had this issue, even masturbating multiple times a day. So I was googling acidic semen and the ph of semen is supposed to be alkaline. So I'm wondering if the acidic nature is the issue. I've also noticed like others have mentioned drinking water helps. I now on a regular basis before and after sex drink plenty of water. I'm kinda wonder (I drink tons of coffee sometimes) if things like coffee make semen more acidic or if there is a specific food causing that. I'm gonna google more later cause it seems to me we've figured out ways to help, but what is the cure? I feel like its a diet related reason.

I have a problem like that where 2-4 hours after masturbating if i become hard it instantly becomes painful. It feels like my penis is being squeezed really hard. I am 14 and confused as to why this is happening please help

Just finished reading all the posts. I'm 26 and have had the same issues for as long as I can remember. Until recently, it hadn't occurred to me that it was all that unusual. I plan to try the magnificently named Advanced Toothpaste Method and will report back results. Another thought I had was this: Has anyone here been checked for abnormal testosterone levels? One or two if you mentioned that, and I've been planning on having my doctor check that for other reasons as well.

After ejaculating try sliding your finger up your penis to squeeze all the sperm out of the penis kind of like a tooth paste tub. Seemed to helped me

Hi I'm 20 years old and I'd like to express my gratitude to Zenman for this technique because it has really helped me!  I can ejaculate now and feel almost no soreness except for maybe a tiny fraction of what I felt before, which I hope will improve to no soreness at all.

Like many others in this thread, after ejaculation, I was sore, especially at the base of the penis.  The soreness would be intensified if I tried to get hard and masturbate again.  I had always attributed this soreness to the muscles of the penis getting sore after ejaculation, but I now know that that's not the case.

Like someone had mentioned earlier, cause is possibly retrograde ejaculation where the semen goes back down after you ejaculate and causes soreness and discomfort.  Part of this may be due to the Tantric technique where you forced yourself to relax muscles that allowed your ejaculation to stop, but also allowed semen to travel somewhere it should not have, causing pain.  To treat this, you need to manually block the cum from travelling backwards which is where the toothpaste method comes in.  What worked for me was using the toothpaste method right as I was ejaculating, making sure to squeeze all of the cum out and blocking the cum from going backwards.  If you let any cum go back down, it will be sore!

I hope this helps add to this wealth of knowledge available here and helps anyone else experiencing the same symptoms!

I recently started experiencing this problem in the last couple days. I am 28 years old. Currently I'm lying in bed with an sore, heavy feeling penis. Feels like it's been hard for 24 hours. Also my lymph nodes are swollen, and I have an ice pack on them. About 10 days ago I began to have painful urination. Before there was any discharge, I went to the clinic and was treated from Gonorrhea and Chlamydia...though I was told no test result would be available for 10 days. 3 days later, the symptoms persisted, so I went to my primary care doctor. Within 3 hours he told me I had a Urinary Tract Infection....STD tests were negative. Again I was give antibiotics, but after 3 more days the symptoms continued. Extreme pain when urinating, and now I began to discharge, and have swollen lymph nodes. The doctor office was closed so I went to urgent care.....I really felt like i was having an emergency. Again, I was treated as if I have an STD. So within 7 days I had 2 injections, 3 different antibiotics, Azithromax, Bactrim, and Docycycline. The urgent care doctor contacted me 2 days later to say I was 100% negative for STD as well.  Its day 11 or 12....the pain of urinating is slowly subsiding. I ejaculated for the first time, and it came out yellow. Like banana yellow. My lymph nodes swelled again making it difficult to walk, and I had a sore penis for hours. 

Tonight  I masturbated twice.....and my penis is swore to touch and movement. Not sure if I can do the squeeze method. Would love to urinate....but its been such a process this last week. I have to brace myself for the pain, and sometime even scream.

 

Tomorrow I go for tests for my prostate.

What is going on?

all u guys have hernias or minor muscle tearing.. once repaired, restrictions on ejaculating will stop and you cum more freely..when u climax it won't be as sensational b/c the muscle tear increased the pressure generating a intense climax(pain+pleasure) you don't notice the soreness until the pleasure is gone...once repaired and treated the flow will be less resistant and you won't experince any future pain after ejaculating..remove the kinks in your pipes
--leroy

guys I am 22 and i have been experiencing this problem for almost 4 years now, I also get an acute pain after ejaculation and intense pressure feeling like my urethra is blocked. I have found that ejaculating while sitting upright increases the pain. i need a solution too.... it is very frustrating coz i cant go for another round when having intercourse

Hi Everyone,

 I am a long time lurker.  I’ve read every item in the thread, and I want to thank all of you for your thoughtfulness and openness.  Like so many of you, I have suffered for many years, and hearing from all of you some how gave me hope.

 I was especially grateful to hear about the “Advanced Toothpaste Method,” which bought the only relief I’ve ever had.

 Since I still had some big problems, even with the toothpaste technique, I kept looking for more answers and stumbled across something that works nearly 100% for me when combined with the toothpaste technique.

 That something is Kegel exercises which consist of tightening and relaxing the muscles of the pelvic floor. They are used to reduce urinary incontinence and premature ejaculation.  Combining a few minutes of exercises everyday with the toothpaste technique has made it possible for me to sleep at night after ejaculating for the first time in years.

 Go to Youtube and do a search on Kegel exercises for a variety of helpful videos on Kegels.

 Good luck, and let me hear what you think.

Lefty