Hey man, I'm glad someone else can relate to my post. Just an update, the "toothpaste method" is still working for me. I can't thank the anonymous poster enough who first mentioned it in this thread, it literally improved my life in a big way. Just to reiterate my advanced toothpaste method: After ejaculation and while still erect, I push down on the perineum with the tips of two fingers (almost touching the anus) and while maintaining pressure I drag my finger tips between the testicles all the way to the tip of the penis. There is always a few drops hiding down in the perineum. Then I just focus on the penis and use the toothpaste method a few times to make sure all the semen is out. Also, I try to urinate within the next 20 minutes. Sometimes it's good to drink a glass of water before sex so you'll have to pee afterwards. I also only ejaculate once every two to three days. (I'm 41. Even in my early 20s I rarely ejaculated more than once a day.)
I still do the tantric techniques every once in a while but as long as I do my advanced method above, I don't have any pain afterward. Occasionally there is some very mild soreness but nothing like how it used to be.
I still do the tantric techniques every once in a while but as long as I do my advanced method above, I don't have any pain afterward. Occasionally there is some very mild soreness but nothing like how it used to be.
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I just wanted to jump in here and reiterate that the "advanced toothpaste method" works for me, too. I would say it eliminates about 85% of the pain, and I can have sex again within the hour.
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Zenman1 i am 25 and hav had this same issue of pain after my 1st ejac. the following ones only make it worse, and by the third one i even looz interest in sex, once its hard again ANY movement of the penis hurts! for about 3 years nw, please if u find any info we can use, please post it :(
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I just wanted to repeat the importance of urinating after ejaculation. My "advanced toothpaste method" is very helpful by itself but urinating within 20 minutes after ejaculation (preferably 10 minutes) will improve your results even more. Drink a glass of water before sex so you'll have some fluids in you.
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zenman dude u must teach me how to do that.. i tried your technique but i dont know where the perenium is.. even if i try the toothpaste method, my penis doesnt squeeze out any excess sperm after i ejaculated.. maybe im doing it wrong? could u elaborate it more? i dont know how to push it all the way from the perenium then between the balls and out through the penis.. i mean how the hell u do that?? doesnt your testicles hurt when u go through in between them??
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No, it doesn't hurt at all. Do it within a minute of ejaculation while the penis is still erect. Just pretend you're drawing a line up right along the center of your body, but start underneath your testicles, and slide your finger between them. Maybe everybody doesn't have any semen hiding down there but I always have a couple drops. I originally just did the toothpaste method on my penis but I noticed I would still have some general soreness and pain in the whole groin area, and I couldn't pinpoint where it was coming from. Then I tried what is now known as the "advanced" method and I got better results. This literally has been a life changer for me. I'm not having more sex or ejaculations than before, but I'm not having all the pain after sex, the painful nocturnal erections, and all the worry about what the f**k was going on down there.
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I have had this problem all my life. But thanks to your advice, I was able to come three times today with no pain! Incredible! I also agree with the person who said that a lot can hide in the urethra even behind the testicles, all the way up to the anus.
I also find that if I wait for 10 minutes or so and squeeze again, even more leaks out. If I pee about 30 minutes after ejaculation, it's like it never even happened.
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I also have this problem to, it hurts for a few hours straight after ejaculation. There have been times where girls I've been with want to go again, but the discomfort just becomes too much, this is so annoying to happen at 21. I've had this happening since I was 16 and knew this was a problem when I heard people could go for 3 rounds easily.
Sometimes, it is possible to keep going if you push yourself enough, but it's more difficult than it should be. I want to try the 'Toothpaste method' but I have a strange condition with my penis called "phimosis" in which I can't pull the foreskin back. If I do manage to get circumcised soon I will try the toothpaste method and report back
thanks for the help
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I would personally tell your doctor to check your prostate anyway. It can't hurt and there is always a chance of it being the problem.
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i have a similar issue, only i do not feel pain in my testicles and mine is a bit clearer... it feels like its actually some of the veins in the shaft of my penis. and its not regular. just on some occaisions especially if i ejaculate numerous times within a close time period. when i regain my erection i feel it in my shaft hurting and its more painful each time i ejaculate.
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I have no problem having sex or masturbating until like 10 seconds after the first ejaculation, this is where I feel that soreness inside and around the penis if I try to get erect again. I have to wait 3-5 hours before I can get erect without pain again, but after that time I'm fine. I've had this issue ever since I started masturbating when I was really young. I think that this is either a natural process or just something that we all have. It might have something to do with a lack of hydration, maybe we need to drink more water. I rarely drink water, so that actually might explain it. The only issue I have with this issue is the fact that I can't keep going during sex after i cum the first time. Someone has to know the solution...
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Im 14 and have the same problem after i cum my penis gets sore, also it will get small and stay firm. I used to think this was normal until the started getting worse.
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