hi, im 21 and i have a very embarassing problem that i dont know if its permanent, if i can get rid of/overcome it, or what? ill begin by sayin i was 17 when i lost my virginity, and i never had premature ejaculation problems; in fact, sometimes i wouldnt be able to come. ive never been very sexually active, but i wouldnt have any problems as far as maintaining an erection or being able to control myself. but, a while back, like a year or two ago, i had an itch on my scrotum and sometimes on my penis and i would scratch it, and over time i noticed that i seemed to scratch a lot of the skin off my scrotum and penis because whereas before the skin was darker, now its much lighter and it seems a bit wrinkled/much dryer than other spots where the original skin is still on. sometimes its so dry that i touch it or rub it gently and its like dead flakes of skin or something are on my fingers. now, this is one thing, thats bad enough, if you have any ideas on how to address that i would be very grateful. ive accepted that my genitals have slightly different shades of skin and thats not a problem, the few girls ive been with recently dont really mind it too much either. but what they do mind is that for some reason i cant last when my penis starts getting friction! mind you, i never had any problems with premature ejaculation but now, i can only last for a few seconds (like 10-20) when i have sex! oh NO! i think it must have something to do with my skin having "come off" and now being much thinner and probably more sensitive. i can get oral sex without coming too early, but for some reason, during sex and masterbation, i can only last for a very VERY short while unless i start/stop or something, but then i cant enjoy the sex and neither can my partner. please, tell me if theres anything i can do, or if youve heard of/seen such cases or similiar ones, or if theres hope. i havent been to a doctor, dermatologist, or urologist but i will very soon. in the meantime, some feedback would be greatly appreciated! needless to say this is very embarassing and has the power to hinder my social life, and therefore my entire life!....
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Hi,
I am very very anxious to know if you have had any success in this regard ?
I've got to say you are much luckier than me since I have the exact same skin problem you describe of and also the same ejaculation symptoms, but you claim that you were not like this before - i.e. you could so called "hold" your ejaculation indefinitely before. I've always been like this.
Your post has finally proven to me that sex is normally not like this. I would kill myself for the sort of blissful condition you had before you got your problem, literally. More so, when you say that neither of you can enjoy sex when you try the start/stop method, it makes me want to kill myself, since I have to try like hell just to last as long as 10-20 seconds, whilst most people can last as long as they want. Imagine trying to scratch your itchy balls when you're hanging off a cliff with one hand and you've lost your other hand. Well my sort of frustration, I swear to you, is much much worse, because I do not see any sort of hope.
Please please let me know if you have made any progress on this front, what sort of doctor to consult, who you have consulted, particularly.
I am very very anxious to know if you have had any success in this regard ?
I've got to say you are much luckier than me since I have the exact same skin problem you describe of and also the same ejaculation symptoms, but you claim that you were not like this before - i.e. you could so called "hold" your ejaculation indefinitely before. I've always been like this.
Your post has finally proven to me that sex is normally not like this. I would kill myself for the sort of blissful condition you had before you got your problem, literally. More so, when you say that neither of you can enjoy sex when you try the start/stop method, it makes me want to kill myself, since I have to try like hell just to last as long as 10-20 seconds, whilst most people can last as long as they want. Imagine trying to scratch your itchy balls when you're hanging off a cliff with one hand and you've lost your other hand. Well my sort of frustration, I swear to you, is much much worse, because I do not see any sort of hope.
Please please let me know if you have made any progress on this front, what sort of doctor to consult, who you have consulted, particularly.
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I have problems with this so I keep telling my girlfriend that I can't have sex with her because I am sick because I am in pain because I have some bacteria issue, etc. But the only problem is my premature ejaculation and I don't know how to tell her. I went to see my urologist talk to him about premature ejaculation causes and I he told me that there is nothing wrong with me and that this premature ejaculation is caused by one of two things: excitement or anxiety. Well, we all do know what anxiety is doing to us, but excitement factor can return if you're having sex after a long break or with a new partner.
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Why won't you both go see a doctor? My bf has the same problem and I had to force him to make an apt. I understand it's embarrassing but isn't more embarrassing not to beableto last during intercoarse? Please tell me what is with men and their inability to ask for help?
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Hi lady,
I'd like to ask you a question.
After the "apt", your "bf" came back saying "the doc prescribed me this and that for the rest of my life" or "try the start stop technique" or "sorry - can't help you there" yes ?
Can you sincerely tell me, if your "bf" has been able to cure his problem ( not with lousy meds or silly 'techniques' ) ?
If so, I'd pay you anything to let me know the name of this miracle doc.
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Have you tried using a penis health creme for your skin issues? A good creme will contain Vitamin E and shea butter and will help with the dry and flaky skin, redness and some of the other issues you mentioned. These cremes are safe to use and totally effective. You should check 'em out. Good luck.
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