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So I'll get right to it, my boyfriend has a fat penis, its not super long but its very thick. And we don't really do foreplay, even though I'd love to, he likes to just get to it. And so whenever he's entering me it hurts but once hes in its fine. But after we have sex and I go to the bathroom or I'm cleaning myself up it hurts to touch my vaginal entrance. And it burns when I pee, like not in the hole the pee comes out of just burns when it hits my vaginal entrance,  it feels like acid hitting it, not fun at all. And we do use lube. So is it that maybe we just need more foreplay? Or could there be a problem with me? Or could we try maybe a new position?

What position do you use?
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Missionary usually. But he likes to lay on me, like most guys hold themselves up, he doesn't. So it kinda goes in at a weird angle.

 

FYI: i wasnt logged in when I made this question so its the same girl no worries.

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If could be just bruiseing your urethra if the angle if is entering you is to straight.
Have you told him to support himself more and that you need more foreplay because it cant be much fun for you to have him go straight at it
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No i havent told him to. I try not to tell him what to do because I don't want to come off mean or anything. But since its hurting me I guess I should suggest something different. I need to find different ways to do foreplay, because he thinks it always has to be oral.

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I suggest you visit a doctor, you might have some kind of STD or vaginal infection, You may need medical care and some medicines.
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Well you say you dont like to tell him because me sounding mean but that's not being mean that's just saying lets try it another way.
Foreplay doesn't have to mean just vagina based there are many erogenous zones on the human body that can either be stimulated by kisses or just touch.
Does your boyfriend like to in at it rough and hard to?
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No he doesnt. I do. But he likes it slow.
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Try spooning position it gives a nice feeling me closeness when you make love.
I would also agree with the other poster to in to the doctor just to make sure nothing is wrong
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Hmm ok. Thanks guys.
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Have you all so tried reverse cow girl position so your in control?
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No i haven't but i have thought about it.
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Try it as i think your both enjoy it as you can always vary whether its slow or hard sex
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I need help my booyfriend and I have had sex before he took my viginity I lost my virginity sep. 28th and we have had sex 3 times after that. Last time we had sex after my vagina was burning when I pee and had a very itchy feeling. Tonight we had sex and my vagina is sore to the touch, it burns when I pee and I'm in an uncomfortable position everytime I move. I had my period last month but this month it did not come I'm scared and think I might be pregnany. What is going on? ........Also I am not on birth control yet (only because I'm scared to tell my parents I'm sexually active) but my boyfriend thinks the condom broke as we were having sex we did not finish so he did not cum (it was coming out a little but only when he got a hand job other then that nothing) but is there a posibility that I can be pregnant Please Help Me I'm Scared And Freaking Out!
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Yes, It´s pretty possible, How old are you?
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