My boyfriend and I started having sex about a week or two ago. At first it just hurt a little, but now I really don't feel much at all. I feel it a lot better when he uses his fingers instead of his penis, which is really confusing me. If anyone can tell me what the problem is I would greatly appreciate it. >.>
Sometimes finger stimulation is more stimulating because it massages the clitoris more than a penis does. This is probably what's going on with you.
Try telling him to be deeper and, when you get farther into it, faster. This will help to stimulate the clitoris more.
Try telling him to be deeper and, when you get farther into it, faster. This will help to stimulate the clitoris more.