Don't worry about pregnancy thing. If you are using precaustion than no problem at all. Now about pain and cramps When I lost my viriginity at that time i also face this thing. This is normal nothing to worry about.
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oh my god thank you so much for saying this, because we were really careful and he didnt even go inside me, just oral and manual but i too have the exact feeling and symptoms
slightly stomach and boob ache and now bloating =[
slightly stomach and boob ache and now bloating =[
i recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend
i lost it 6 days ago but i am overwhelmed with pain
i'm on birth control pil and i used a condon
but i'm stilll i feel bloated and my sides and stomach hurt should
i stop taking my birth control pil to see if i have a period that way i can make sure i'm not pregnant or should i just wait..
i lost it 6 days ago but i am overwhelmed with pain
i'm on birth control pil and i used a condon
but i'm stilll i feel bloated and my sides and stomach hurt should
i stop taking my birth control pil to see if i have a period that way i can make sure i'm not pregnant or should i just wait..
using the pill and the condom is EXTREMELY effective and there is such a small chance of you being pregnent, especially if you use the pill correct everytime you're supposed to take it. If pill and condom are used properly then your chances of being pregnant are .03%. Don't stop taking the pill it will mess up your cycle for a little while and you would have to wait a while before wanted to have safe sex, unless you use a condom. However skipping a day from the pill increases your chances.
Hey,
I didn't get the stomach cramps but I did bleed and was quite sore for a few days, I've been doing some reading though and am also a psychology student and I just wanted to put this idea forward.
It could be the worrying itself that is the cause, if you've used condoms and the pill there is only a minute chance you could be pregnant and it certainly wouldn't show in the first week anyway so there really is no need to panic about that. I think the cramps might be from fear, worry, nervousness or guilt, something along those lines... sort of like getting butterflies but to the extreme.
I didn't get the stomach cramps but I did bleed and was quite sore for a few days, I've been doing some reading though and am also a psychology student and I just wanted to put this idea forward.
It could be the worrying itself that is the cause, if you've used condoms and the pill there is only a minute chance you could be pregnant and it certainly wouldn't show in the first week anyway so there really is no need to panic about that. I think the cramps might be from fear, worry, nervousness or guilt, something along those lines... sort of like getting butterflies but to the extreme.
o my i feel the exact same
i lost mines 4 days ago and we did use protection and it didnt break or anything
but my stomach has been feeling real crampy
reading this made me feel so much better
hopefully this pain goes away and im not pregnant
i lost mines 4 days ago and we did use protection and it didnt break or anything
but my stomach has been feeling real crampy
reading this made me feel so much better
hopefully this pain goes away and im not pregnant
hey ppl! i need your help..well me & ma bf have never had sex right..but have been messin around with clothes on..ivee been getting cramps in ma stomach and abdomen area. Alsoo on ma lower bak..i wanted to know is this pain normal? :?
thank you guys i just recently took my g.f virginity 4 days ago and shes feeling sharp pains in her lower stomach but it sounds to be normal with females that loose ther virginity... how are you guys feelin now? anything change? any bad or good news?
Hi,
I too have lost my virginity a couple days ago and since then my stomach has been hurting really bad and i dont know why. We used protection and he did not cum inside of me. Is there a reason for these cramps I am having I see its normal and i feel ALOT better now but i would still like to know why i feel like this.
I too have lost my virginity a couple days ago and since then my stomach has been hurting really bad and i dont know why. We used protection and he did not cum inside of me. Is there a reason for these cramps I am having I see its normal and i feel ALOT better now but i would still like to know why i feel like this.
I just lost my virginity a couple days ago and am also having the cramping and lower ab pains, as well as a little weakness in my legs. My boyfriend and I uesd condoms (had sex more than once) and I also recently started on the pill. So I'm assuming the cramps and pain (and weakness) is because this whole thing is mew to my body. It was a workout and I think my body just doesn't know what to do since it's never done this before. So I believe we're all normal, and NOT pregant. :-D
Oh my goodness! Thank god I found this! I had sex for the first time the other day and am totally freaking out thinking I'm pregnant. I thought I was a freak,but maybe all girls are just paranoid. Lol. I was wondering though, cos I have the weird crampy-feels-like-there's-something-moving-inside-me thing, does anyone know how long the pains last? We used a condom and he didn't cum inside me, so I guess I was just being a hypocondriact. If someone could answer that, I'd sure appreciate it. Cheers! X :-D
Wooahh,
me & my bf had sex with a condom about 2 weeks ago and it didnt break or anything and he didn't cum in me at all. but i feel slight pains in my stomach and wen i press my stomach in it hurts abit and is a lil hard, is this normal? and it seems to me that iv gt abit fatter, maybe its coz im worryin about being pregnant!! im due on my period nearer the end of the month and am hoping i come on. i hope i aint pregnant, any1 help me? %-) :-)
me & my bf had sex with a condom about 2 weeks ago and it didnt break or anything and he didn't cum in me at all. but i feel slight pains in my stomach and wen i press my stomach in it hurts abit and is a lil hard, is this normal? and it seems to me that iv gt abit fatter, maybe its coz im worryin about being pregnant!! im due on my period nearer the end of the month and am hoping i come on. i hope i aint pregnant, any1 help me? %-) :-)
Hey guys n Girls particulary.. My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time 2 days ago. The following day she told me that she's been experiencing cramping and nausea (sick feeling).. Symptoms simililar to wat u guys discussed and she's been worried ever since . I' am worried also .. I mean like I love her soooo much , she means the world to me :-( n I can't allow anything to be wrong with her . The sex was safe,a bit of oral , fingering and the actual thing .. the condom didn't break or anything like that n I didn't even 'cum' (we used body lotion as lube tho???). But we're still a lil worried and hoping for the best . She's also experiencing a lil pain while while urinating ... I just want to know if this is normal n get some additional advice ?
Ps. This blog really made my day since I've been all over the net last 24hrs lookin for answers ..hopefully my girlfriend would find this info beneficial too . Thnx
Ps. This blog really made my day since I've been all over the net last 24hrs lookin for answers ..hopefully my girlfriend would find this info beneficial too . Thnx
So i had sex for the first time almost a week and a day. I fingered my girlfriend and she gave me head, We use a condom and it never broke or anything and i didnt even come we had to stop. But we've had sex twice and used a condom, she is not on the pill and she is now complaining about pain and cramps in her stomach and we are both worried sick that she is pregnant:( Is this normal, ive been reading here on this forum and most of them have the exact same symptoms, So please help me out here and she says she should of got her period but im hopeing she will get it in the next day or so.
Please help me
Thanks you very much
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So i had sex for the first time almost a week and a day. I fingered my girlfriend and she gave me head, We use a condom and it never broke or anything and i didnt even come we had to stop. But we've had sex twice and used a condom, she is not on the pill and she is now complaining about pain and cramps in her stomach and we are both worried sick that she is pregnant:( Is this normal, ive been reading here on this forum and most of them have the exact same symptoms, So please help me out here and she says she should of got her period but im hopeing she will get it in the next day or so.
Please help me
Thanks you very much
(ill be checking here every 15mins)
Please help me
Thanks you very much
(ill be checking here every 15mins)