Folks - this post is over TWO YEARS old! I highly doubt the original poster is still watching this post - and the kid is 15 or 16 now...so I'm sure whatever issues there were have long since be resolved (I hope)...
what you should do is make sure he's aware of safe sex methods...I know someone in Nawlins who came out when he was young and his granny demonstrated all of the proper methods of performing fellatio using a cucumber for him..
I'm not making this up..
I'm not making this up..
YES ... There IS A PROBLEM !!! .... But It's Not with HIM . . . . . It's YOU !!!
Where have you been All your Life ?!? ... You've Obviously HEARD OF MASTURBATION ... Well ... DUHHH !!! ... You SHOULD Know That IT'S NORMAL and HEALTHY !!! . . . . . Baby's MASTURBATE soon After Birth ... In fact, it's been known for them to masturbate in the Womb !!! . . . Do Some Research and Get A Life !!!
WELCOME To THE REAL WORLD !!!
Leave Him Alone. As for The Other Boy ... Don't Jump to Conclusions . . . They were probably just sharing Methods ..... or seeing who could CUM (Ejaculate) First. Or one could have been showing the other how to DO IT !!!
Girls Do It too. Don't tell me that YOU have NEVER MASTURBATED !!! ... If you Try To, you are lying ... You Have Masturbated ... maybe without even realising.
Where have you been All your Life ?!? ... You've Obviously HEARD OF MASTURBATION ... Well ... DUHHH !!! ... You SHOULD Know That IT'S NORMAL and HEALTHY !!! . . . . . Baby's MASTURBATE soon After Birth ... In fact, it's been known for them to masturbate in the Womb !!! . . . Do Some Research and Get A Life !!!
WELCOME To THE REAL WORLD !!!
Leave Him Alone. As for The Other Boy ... Don't Jump to Conclusions . . . They were probably just sharing Methods ..... or seeing who could CUM (Ejaculate) First. Or one could have been showing the other how to DO IT !!!
Girls Do It too. Don't tell me that YOU have NEVER MASTURBATED !!! ... If you Try To, you are lying ... You Have Masturbated ... maybe without even realising.
You Can't Honestly Say THAT ... !!! ... The POSTER MAY WELL BE Still Watching The Post if She Requested Notification of Replies By E-mail.
Okay, I would believe that if he was raped when he was younger then his brain might have been wired to think that gay sex is okay. and I'm not saying that it isn't okay. But masterbation is totally normal . you should not be angry at him for that . but now sex, I wouldn't face this with anger but understanding.... just try to put yourself in his shoes.
Your statement that we are "made male and female, not gay" is pretty ridiculous and quite ignorant considering that gays/lesbians ARE males and females. Homosexuality is found all throughout nature, so if we were indeed "made" by someone/some thing (not very likely the Christian/Biblical God BTW) then we were made what we are - red, yellow, black or white, male or female, homosexual or straight. People need to accept that fact and get over it.
it is just really wrong that he has SEX with other people at 13. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, since we were 13. But we didnt try sex or anything, just the occasional kisss... but i guess you would know from very young what ever sexuality you are. I think talk would do the job, and what ever he thinks is right, help him understand your concern
Okay,
First of all, don't confront a child who is masturbating for it will cause it to happen often. i should know... my mom did it to my little brother.
Second: DON'T ever let them find out that you have told someone about this or they will end up hating you.
Third and Final: Leave them be and just wait it out they will stop when they are ready.
;-) The wink means nothing. i just like that smiley...
First of all, don't confront a child who is masturbating for it will cause it to happen often. i should know... my mom did it to my little brother.
Second: DON'T ever let them find out that you have told someone about this or they will end up hating you.
Third and Final: Leave them be and just wait it out they will stop when they are ready.
;-) The wink means nothing. i just like that smiley...
masturbating is normal ecspeciely at that age u should have a talk with him about the sex
I'm 12 and I've been wanking for about a year now. I wank at night, too. I'm thinking I might be bisexual. I've only dated girls and I've been in love with girls, too. But, I'm attracted to penisses. I think the only relationship I could have with a guy would be purelly physical. Saying that I've kissed one girl and never had sex. I'd say its natural.
Hi,
Everybody has different level of hormons.
Nobody exactly the same.
Let it go..
Everybody has different level of hormons.
Nobody exactly the same.
Let it go..
Hello,
I am 25years old, and I remeber my teenage years. I am not a gay, but when it comes to the hand job, I did it for the first time when I was 13 years old and I did it when I was exploring myself. Then I did it all the time as I was so excited & then even everynight before sleep. After I got to know about it and knew all about it the interest of mastubating reduced. I am matured now, and I say its just excitement during teenage years. Your son is doing what any human would do at this age. Just talk to him, tell not to get addicted to it. Explain him and talk to him kindly.
If you need to discuss more on this, I am glad to help you and your son. Please mail me ***Email DELETED by Moderator***
I am 25years old, and I remeber my teenage years. I am not a gay, but when it comes to the hand job, I did it for the first time when I was 13 years old and I did it when I was exploring myself. Then I did it all the time as I was so excited & then even everynight before sleep. After I got to know about it and knew all about it the interest of mastubating reduced. I am matured now, and I say its just excitement during teenage years. Your son is doing what any human would do at this age. Just talk to him, tell not to get addicted to it. Explain him and talk to him kindly.
If you need to discuss more on this, I am glad to help you and your son. Please mail me ***Email DELETED by Moderator***
Get real, they're not necessarily gay. Sex is common amongst teenage boys and masturbating is even more so. They are not doomed to become gay, and even if they do, have you got some kind of discrimination against homosexuals? Just make clear the difference between willing sex (which is alright in life) and raping (which is not).
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When I was just 15, a 13 year old boy gave me manual stimulation on a Scout campout weekend. I loved it and we met for several years and advanced to oral sex and lots of kissing. Though I remain Gay, the other boy grew up, married and raised a family of his own. During the teen years, for boys, sexual experimentation happens all the time. Most eventually turn to heterosexual relationships and function well as adults. Sex for boys is both a curiosity as well as a great release. I would not give it a second thought. Seems quite normal to me. Wanting you to watch him doing it does seem a little out of the ordinary, but guys all have different fantasies and as long as you don't participate, I'm sure he'll get past it.