I am a 62 year old male, and started masturbating at age 12. 50 years later, I still masturbate.
At age 14, I had an experience with my best friend (also 14). We were in my bedroom (no one else home). We talked about our girlfriends (age 13), and got rather curious. He suggested we "whip it out," and we did. We played with ourselves a bit, and then got closer and more curious - looking at each others' penises. He asked if I'd ever had a BJ, and I said "no." He confessed to having not had i, either. We decided to experiment, and each put our mouths on the other one's penis. It only lasted a few seconds, and we stopped. We subsequently masturbated each other to orgasm. It was no big deal, and it never happened again.
At age 16, my brother (with whom I shared a bedroom) came home drunk one night. He stripped off his clothes and started masturbating. He was very large and hard. He urged me to join hiim, and I did. We both came to orgasm, and that was it. Never repeated, and never discussed thereafter.
These are things young boys do. Unless it becomes a repetitious process, young men should be able to be open with their sexual self-pleasure. Avoid making it a big deal. Suggest to them that it's something they should do in private, and they should be given the privacy to do so. If they have questions, answer them honestly. Assure him that boys and girls do such things.
You're not the first parent to go through this, and won't be the last. Be patient and caring with your son.
Best Wishes!
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Hi! Bluepony,
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hello its good when boys masturbate and when home with family they should not have to hide. should be able to enjoy their penis any time anywhere in the home
Don't be angry,let them self find out of it.And,sex is good,for all of us,so why stop the teenagers.
But take your penis in your hand,and do it again and again and again....
i think you should have sexual intercourse with him.
he-he,you think so!Youre totally wrong.I guess youre kidding,so I laugh of this:))