I didn't mean to be so angry,but I had to write somthing.I am angry,but NOT THAT angry.We have different opinions,I'll respect that.Have nice days:)
loook my opinion probably doesnt matter but look im bisexaul and im 13 its just hormones thats why young males masturbatebut even if you support his his sexaulity or not please always stand up for him ive delt with my parents with their extreme christian veiws they never found out im gay but i ended up trying to commit suicide and dont put him in therapy that will make suicidal thoughts worse if he is suicidal but just remember to love your kid no matter what because there is alot more to it then you think!
I'm sorry. I think I read that incorrectly. Hold on. Oh, look, there's nothing wrong with my eyesight after all. What id**t goes ahead and says, "being gay is not good?" . That is not only rude but completely incorrect. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone of our own gender. I could rant for hours on end but basically, that is not something for you to decide. Personally, I think just because you aren't gay doesn't mean it's okay to think, "omigawd look at that kid he is so wrong in the head cause he's GAY" because: YOU. CAN'T. DICTATE. OTHER. PEOPLE'S. LIVES. so go pound sand. The end.
It's completely normal he is just experimenting with his body so just let him do it it's al part of growing up.
nearly all boys start masturbating by age 11....this is totally normal and natural....nothing to be ashamed of....parents forget that they were once that same age,with the same feelings...just let him know that all boys his age do this and that it is very normal and acceptable.give him lots of love,affection,and attention.
many many kids start to masturbate before age 13,why do you think it is something to be concerned about....100%of all boys in the world do it,and also most girls....it is totally natural.........now,what were he and hid friend ( boy doing exactly?)if it was something like 69.that is nothing serious,they are just curious about how it feels.....but if any anal,explain to them in a kind scientific way,the reasons that that is a really bad idea....he sounds like he may have a lot of anxiety abot his body...many parents teach their kids that certain body parts are evil,horrid and nasty...so why not try this:
,give him the freedom to be nude in the privacy of the home...he will feel more free,and it will make him happy...kids should have this liberty since birth..( all kids just naturally love to be naked...this is how i raised my kids,and it WORKS!.).tell him that his body is beautiful ....not bad or nasty...be affectionate,maybe offer him a full body comforting massage, or just caress his head and face and tell him that you love him very very much,and give him many hugs and kisses....best of luck!
:-D...in response to MRTMB......HOW DID YOU GET TO BE SUCH A CRANKY OLD FART?..ARE YOU FROM THE MIDDLE AGES.......wake up! don't you realize that kids as old as 13 have long had normal sensual feelings? boy i sure wold hate to be a child of yours....YOU NEED TO LIGHTEN UP ! LEAVE THE POOR KIDS ALONE!
As a straight male, I have NEVER been interested in experimenting with my guy friends. The thought in itself would have grossed me completely out. My first sexual experience was with a 12 year old girl who used to come over all the time with her dad (Her dad was a close friend of my parents') and she used to have me go down on her all the time. I was only 9 years old at the time and had to real understanding of why she liked it so much, but there was something very taboo about it and even at 9 years old, I knew I liked it and it did indeed turn me on. After I turned 10, we moved away and I never saw her again.
I did not start masturbating until I was about 12 years old. But even then I never actually got off until I was 13. I did not actually lose my virginity (technically) until I was 13 years old...and she was 15. In all those years, not one single time had I ever thought about playing with other boys in a sexual manner. I for one strongly disagree when people say that it is normal for boys to experiment with other boys. In fact, I think if any boy had any kind of peer pressure to force another boy in to "experimenting" with him, it might actually cause severe psychological problems, that may cause the, what would have normally been a straight boy, kid, to start questioning if he were gay...which could lead to serious guilt and confusion...and could possibly actually turn a straight boy in to a gay boy.
No, I do not agree one bit that "experimenting with other boys" is normal, nor healthy behavior and could lead to very negative affects in a child's mind. Masturbation is normal..."experimenting with boys" however is not.
Hold that talk until you are sure you won't get excited and desire his flesh. People are normal AND I would get turned on "Big Time" in any discussion. Talk when you are COOL and ready for some strange turns... If he desires YOU, you may need professional help, that is; unless you like what you see and want some of the action. Think about!
i am a boy just about puberty,i and my 2 brothers are just able to come,now,,,.we brothers do fun things( that our girl--friends call 69 but we are not gay....but there is nothing wrong with being gay,or experimenting
in some cultures moms have oral contact with their boy's genitals..it is expected....for. a few reasons...and thru puberty.