My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 6 months and we've just started having sex. He had given my his virginity but I hadn't given him mine. I told him that my ex was just a really convincing guy (not in those exact words) but in reality I lost it because I just couldn't say no to my ex. I felt almost forced into doing it and I certainly wasn't ready. I just don't know if I could tell my current boyfriend that though. I really love him and I really wish I had waited for him. But now every time we do anything I get this nagging feeling of guilt and I feel horrible and kind of like a hartlet. My problem is telling him all of this. I don't want him to look at me any differently and I certainly don't want him to leave. Any suggestions??? or well, any advice I'm sure would be helpful to me.
Hi,
If you want to tell him then explain how you felt then and how you do now and Im sure he will be supportive of you and respect you for being honest. It is your body to do what you like. Just because you couldnt tell him doesnt mean you should feel guilty - you have dont nothing wrong! Keep your chin held high and proud of who you are!
Hope everything works out okay :)