Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm always feeling turned on and have the need to masturbate but I have never gotten to orgasm before because it would be too loud and my parents would hear. I have tried time again but now the old circle over the clit won't work. Help, I need new, easy and quiet ways to masturbate.. ps. I'm ashamed of this and found it really hard to write this
How do you know your orgasm would be loud if you have never had one?
A lot of females hardly make a sound during orgasm only have increased breathing rate, my advice to you would be to take yourself all the way to orgasm when your alone in the house, clitoral stimulation is one of the most strongest kinds and if you no longer feel anything from it your not doing something right!
Don't worry, orgasms don't have to be loud. Don't believe what porn shows, girls there scream on purpose for the show. Even if you do make a sound, it'll be soft.
If you're still afraid thought you can just lay face down and bury your head on the pillow when you orgasm to cover the sound.
How to know if you orgasm is a bit hard for girls. You'll know because it feels different than the rest. Your vagina will start throbbing and you'll feel like an explosion of pleasure. I've heard a girl describe it as waves of pleasure coming from her p***y and going all over her body. It's the maximum stage of pleasure. Some girls that have never orgasm confuse the feeling of getting close to orgasms with the feeling of wanting to pee. After the orgasm you should feel less turned on, and the intensity of the pleasure should go down.
To actually say what feelings you will experience during orgasm only you can do that. Always make sure when you masturbate you use a wet finger to stimulate your clit and rather than using direct clitoral stimulation try softly massaging the clitoral hood and around the clit and running a wet finger softly up and down between your labia you can also try some ice and circle your clit with it and aver your nipples but the most important thing of all is to be fully relaxed and to use your imagination while doing it.