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I had this exact problem. I was sore, swollen and uncomfortable, but it went away in about a day. I noticed i was sore right after being fingered. Then i realized my my vaginal lips started to swell. As soon as i noticed this i put some ice on the area untill the swelling stopped. Then i put a heating pad on the area while i slept. The next day i was still sore but i rested and the swelling went down a lot.

I sugest rotating between ice and a heating pad (if u don't have a heating pad a warm wash cloth will do). Also don't do anything that could irritate it more. Such as thongs, tight pants, soaps (just stick with warm water and ice), or anything sexual. Hope this helps...
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anonymous wrote:

You're thirteen years old and you've already been fingered? That's sad. I hope it's nothing serious, but I would see a doctor just to be sure, because it's possible it's something minor that can grow to be serious.

wats so sad about experimenting with pleasure
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So my boyfriend started rubbing and it gets more passionate and he rubs harder and harder and when he is done and goes home a while later I realize I'm spotting and I don't know if its from the rubbing? He was rubbing out side the undies and I'm eightteen and virign an idk if something is wrong
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I got fingered last night and i didn't cum and now this morning it's way inflamed and is oozing cum what do I do
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im 15. my boyfriend fingered me many times before. and last night he did it really hard. theres no burning when peeing, or itchy. or anything you guys are describing. im not really puffy either. just very sore . so im going to guess its normal. XD
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Please go see a doctor and be careful of what boys put inside you. And after you have had sex, you need to go see a gynecologist (especially if you are so young) There are all sorts of things that could go wrong that you have no idea about.
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Me and my boyfriend did stuff yesterday. I let him finger me and he was really rough. When I went home and took a shower, i realized that my inside virgina lips were big ans swollen n there was blood in my panties. I am not a virgin so he didnt pop my"cherry" but i was scared. I told my mom and she said that it was probably just very irritated.
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    ok im 13 and it was me and my ex-bf. we still have a sexual tesion and its great.but he is 14 turnin 15. but he fingered me but my p***y wasnt swollen or cut. i bleed and gudd thing i was wearing a pad. but its ok but some vasline leave it on there for a hour(1)k then dry urself and put baby powder in ur panties and you will be ok. have fun doin wat u are doin and have safe sex and it feels gudd. ohhh and have him wash his hands or put on thr finger glove its like the big gloves the doctors use but for a finger k.u are welcom. by the way my name is dazia
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Well I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17, about a day or so ago, he fingered me REALLY aggressively. It went on for about 10 minutes, but I didn't notice it then, but when I got home I noticed there was some blood on my panties, which means he popped my cherry. But last night, I was feeling aroused and I started to finger myself. When I pulled my finger out, there was almost like, little chunks of skin that came out, and I haven't really been wet. Any suggestions about what this is or how I could treat it? My boyfriend is in South Carolina currently on a college recruitment trip, and I don't want to talk to him about it. This is day 2 and there are still chunks of skin in there, is it possible for it to peel? Please help!!! 
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I had the same thing that happened to me... A few months back my boyfriend finger me hard and deep. And me being a virgin at the time he popped my cherry. I was sore and I bled alot. I was sore and swollen for a week. Still from that day even having sex I still get a little swollen. It all depends on how hard he's going.
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Guest wrote: I am 13 years old and my friend  tried to finger me but i didnt let him!! your a year younger then me and i don't think you should of let him .. but i think you should try to put an ice pack and drink plenty of cranberry juice ! and it should get better ! and if it doesn't your gonna have to go to your mom because you might have a urenary track infection or maybe his fingers were dirty and you might have some bad bacteria in your vagina !  just be careful 

Im 12 years and my boyfriend is 16 i know that a big age difrence but it has worked up untill yesterday he usally touchs my body but i never realy let him go down there , yesterday when we were kissing he sliped him hand down there and started to rub me it felt really good so i let him go then he stuck his fingers in and it started to hurt more and more. i told him to stop and he did , he went home for the night but my Vag really hurts when i walk and stuff and even just sitting there and there is small spec of blood around it is everything okay? im so worried now , i cant stop thinking about it. His fingeers are really long and it was really scary thinking about it thats the main reason i never let him in the past. I love him so much but im scared to tell him, can anyone help?


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he needs to wash his hand s before fingering.
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I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16. We've been dating a while now and he fingered me last night, this isn't the first time he's fingered me, but Last night was the first time in a while and he went really hard and fast. Now today the inside lips are really big and raw like. What can I do to make this better?
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I am 15 and the same thing happened to me. My boyfriend fingered me really roughly and just withen 5 minutes after we finished, it felt wierd to walk. It felt like a wedgie. When I got home and looked in the bathroom, my vagina lips were swelled up like water balloons! I freaked out thinking I have a infection now. I told him about it. He said he's never had it happen to his ex-gfs. I'm really scared thinking i'll have it forever. Today it's been 3 days after, and it's the same but it's more painful to sit, very hard to find a postion to sleep (because I toss and turn a lot), and the discharge is drying up around and i'm trying to keep it clean but all I want is it to not be so puffy anymore! It burns to pee. I have been wearing baggy pants and no underwear.

 3 days in, is there anything that can make it go away soon? I don't want to walk around like a monkey or cowboy all day.

Please, and thanks.

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what the hell is a 12 year old doing dating a 16 year old and why are 14 15 13 12 and 16 year old girls doing being fingered i mean what the f**k were are your parents??
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