Hey so my boyfriend and I have been talking about anal sex a lot. We tried fingers with lube and it kinda hurt then I laid on my stomach and he was on take and we push in. It hurt so bad i had him stop. What can we do to make it feel good and make it hurt less? Also I know it will hurt at first but for how long exactly?
It's good of you to try and explore new things in your sexual life. But the thing about anal is it isn't much like what you thnink of it at first. Anyway, the experience can be different with different couples. Anal obviously hurts. The first time, it hurts much more and later on it does less but does. But many women find pleasure in this hurting too.
The thing about anal is if you like it in the first place, you'll like it always. But if you don't then you aren't probably into it that much.