What do i do? i am 14 and i might be pregnate! i am engeged to the love of my life but i am not ready to have a baby! what do i do i am not going to tell grandma she would kill me!!!!!!! And she all ready hates my boy friend! and so does all my friends and my church family does to! So what am i suppodr to do? should i runaway from home again? i am scared and don't know what to think!? I I I I...... AM JUST SCARED!!!! plz give me advice!
Well i would just go out and tell the truth your going to have to theres no other way out even though shes you grandma and hates your boyfriend she will support you in any way
That is a very sad situation you are in. I agree with the post above you... You can not get around it... Buy a pregnancy test, eight bucks at CVS. Or go to a planned parenthood and see what options you have... Are you engaged? Ask for support from your boyfriend's parents. But don't panic unless you've taken a test, because you're young, and your period could come late.
Your 14, engaged, and possibly pregnant. If you're possibly pregnant then the chances are 50/50. You may want to get checked out. A blood test would certainly tell you. A missing period can also determine if you're pregnant or not. But the results aren't so accurate. Especially if you're worrying too much about the situation. The best thing to do is to stay calm and not run away from your problems (It's a sign of maturity). Also, it's best to be honest. You wouldn't want others finding out on their own. Then the predicament you've put yourself in will become more dramatic. Your family may dislike your boyfriend, but that doesn't change the way you feel about him. They should be able to accept that. My point is, you can't get out of a situation once you're in it. Having a baby takes a lot of responsibility. If you feel you're not ready, don't depend on abortion. It will only make you feel a lot of guilt in your heart and will haunt you for the rest of your time being. There's always adoption where loving families who aren't able to produce their own baby are willing to take home and adore your baby. At the same time, you don't seem too sure that you're pregnant. You may want to check that out first before you assume. Good luck and best wishes.