what does it really mean when a guy askes to cum inside a girl??

• "What does it really mean when a guy asks to cum inside a girl?"

1. Why not ask him?
2. It is more satisfying than having to use a condom.
3. Maybe he doesn't realise/care-about the risk of STD/STIs.
4. It is more satisfying to not have to withdraw first.
5. It is less stressful than having to restrain.
6. It is the natural outcome of sexual intercourse. (One good reason to wait until marriage)

• "Does he know that the girl can become pregnant?"

1. Maybe not. There's a lot of ignorance about sexual matters. Some believe that a girl can't get pregnant first time (she can!)
2. Perhaps he thinks/assumes/wants-to-know if she is in her 'non-fertile' part of her cycle. (Very risky - any unprotected sex carries the risk of pregnancy - at any time!)
3. Perhaps he thinks/assumes/wants-to-know if she is using contraception. Many assume a girl is 'on the pill'.
4. Maybe he knows but doesn't care. Casual sex often is linked with care-free attitude.

• "Is he trying to get the girl pregnant?"

1. Not necessarily.
2. That is a possibility.
3. Perhaps a macho attitude. "I got her pregnant!"
4. Maybe a device to keep the girl.
5. Maybe revenge.

• "My friend's going nuts over here."

1. Is that a pun?
2. I assume your friend is a girl
3. Just say 'no'
4. Drop the guy.
5. How about abstinence, and develop a real relationship, and avoid the risk of STD/STIs?

There could be all sorts of reasons.

But think of the potential damage a pre-marital sex-life can have on a future marriage.