I'm not exactly new to anal sex, but I still consider myself a newbie to it. I've tried it a couple times and each time wasn't so pleasant. Not only was I stressed because I knew it was going to hurt, but I can't get over the fact that it's not a "clean" area. I saw a porn clip where a girl put a penis in her mouth AFTER it was in her butt and I was just like boy that's either a really clean hole or she has issues...?
We've used a lot of lube and he's been slow those 4-5 times we've done it, but I keep thinking too much of the how much it's gonna hurt and how unclean it is, which prevented me from really relaxing. I want to get into anal sex, but those two things hold me back and he can only get it when we go out of town (so i can scream bloody murder...LOL)
Can someone tell me what I can use? I don't know much about douche's or enemmas. I was looking into getting a butt plug so I can get use to the feeling. We're going out of town next weekend and I'm sure he'll want the back door and I'll be more than willing this time if I can solve my problem.
I'll take any pointers I can get. Thanks1
We've used a lot of lube and he's been slow those 4-5 times we've done it, but I keep thinking too much of the how much it's gonna hurt and how unclean it is, which prevented me from really relaxing. I want to get into anal sex, but those two things hold me back and he can only get it when we go out of town (so i can scream bloody murder...LOL)
Can someone tell me what I can use? I don't know much about douche's or enemmas. I was looking into getting a butt plug so I can get use to the feeling. We're going out of town next weekend and I'm sure he'll want the back door and I'll be more than willing this time if I can solve my problem.
I'll take any pointers I can get. Thanks1
anal sex doesn't necessarily have to hurt at all. you are right, it all comes down to being able to relax. even with relaxing though, if someone goes to fast it will hurt. you shouldn't be expecting it to hurt as that's probably part of why it does (obviously you can't relax properly). a butt plug may be a good idea as you can take things completely at your own pace and get used to it.
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I think that your man just likes to ram his tool into your ass just to hear you scream b/c his penis is so small he cant feel anything doing you in your vagina and/or your vagina is just so loose and used up hes gotta hit the ass.
Just squeal like a pig and take it!!!!
I think that your man just likes to ram his tool into your ass just to hear you scream b/c his penis is so small he cant feel anything doing you in your vagina and/or your vagina is just so loose and used up hes gotta hit the ass.
Just squeal like a pig and take it!!!!
Unscrew the end of your shower hose, apply the little spherical free end of it to your anus, and standing up in the shower, start opening the cold and warm water taps until you feel the water coming into you. Stop after 10 secs and evacuate on the flor of the shower. Repeat this 4 or 5 times until water comes out clear. He will probably be very gratefull. Use any kind of vaginal lubricant you can buy at your supermarket.
First, the porn clip is due to film editing! No one would take a penis with hershey all over it into their mouth. Second, about an hour or so prior to fudge packing, give yourself a Fleet enema, hold it as long as possible, then release it. Avoid eating between the enema and sex. Also try to switch to a high fiber diet if anal sex is going to be a regular event. This prevents the fecal matter from sticking to the sides of the rectum. Finally, be careful with using enemas, your excretory system can become dependent on them. That is why the high fiber diet is important. Lastly, you can incorporate water sports into your sex life. Purchase an enema/douche bag, fill it with warm soapy water and allow it to run into your rectum in the bath tub. I ahve used warm milk as well which is very relaxing. And everything runs down the drain.