What is the most effective way or position to lose virginity

You can be either on top or bottom, or sideways if you're feeling experimental.

You need to be in control so it wouldn't hurt much, so try to be on top for instance.

Make sure you are very turned on and there is plenty of vaginal fluids being produced. Position does really male much difference. Once you are ready, have your partner insert it quickly and hold inside you until you feel comfortable again, then start moving in and out to induce pleasure.

Having him finish in you will ease the pain as his cum is warm and feels great inside you.