i am virgin and had finished my periods a week ago when i messed around with my partner having unprotected sex. he rubbed the outter area only with his penis. i am not sure if he ejaculated during this or not. could it impregnent me ? if so what should i do now ? wait or take pills ? if so which one? this is my first time doing anything like this.
I would say your okay, this time. You have a few advantages here, #1 your a virgin and #2 he didn't penetrate you. Are you sure you don't know if he had cum? That's a little hard to miss.
I would relax for now, i doubt that your pregnant. By your description of your sex play, it sounds like the both of you could get carried away at any time. Have you considered gettting on some birth control? It only takes a minute to take your virginity which could lead to pregnancy. Many girls have gotten pregnant the first time.
I would relax for now, i doubt that your pregnant. By your description of your sex play, it sounds like the both of you could get carried away at any time. Have you considered gettting on some birth control? It only takes a minute to take your virginity which could lead to pregnancy. Many girls have gotten pregnant the first time.
hello bbfeet, thanks verymuch for putting it here it brings me relief. yes we are planing not to have kids yet we have to decide what would be the most suitable method of protection; use of condom only? we are still discussing. any good sugestion will be welcomed and much appriciated
thanks once again
thanks once again
Hi Mona, your welcome.
If you are considering birth control, a condom is okay but certainly not ones first choice of regular birth control. What i mean is when you are in the moment it is a buzz kill to have to stop and roll on a condom 8-| tho it works well if used correctly and does safe guard against std's (not saying he has one) I would think about the pill. There are many types of bc, meaning you may have to go thru 2 or 3 different kinds until you find the right one for you. Certain kinds of bc may not agree with you, some might make you sick while something else may make you bleed in between your regular periods. You might get lucky the first time out and have no problems at all.
Your best bet is to discuss this with your Health Care Provider. He/she will be able to tell you exactly what you can expect and what would be the best fit for you. What's really nice about the pill is you will pretty much know when you are getting your period. It's nice to plan vacations and fun time around knowing exactly when you will be out of commission. Some bc controls acne, weight gain, appetite, pms etc...
Wouldn't it be nice to just have sex in a relaxed frame of mind with no interuptions? The condom could break, it could be expired, to big, to small, taken off wrong, leakage, loosing it in there. Just to pop a pill everyday at the same time and enjoy yourself would be worth it to me anyway. It won't hurt to try it and if you change your mind you can always stop taking them and use a different method of bc. Idk, think about it. It is stressful enough contemplating planning to loose your virginity to that special person, you really don't need the threat of pregnancy hanging over first time experience. :-D
If you are considering birth control, a condom is okay but certainly not ones first choice of regular birth control. What i mean is when you are in the moment it is a buzz kill to have to stop and roll on a condom 8-| tho it works well if used correctly and does safe guard against std's (not saying he has one) I would think about the pill. There are many types of bc, meaning you may have to go thru 2 or 3 different kinds until you find the right one for you. Certain kinds of bc may not agree with you, some might make you sick while something else may make you bleed in between your regular periods. You might get lucky the first time out and have no problems at all.
Your best bet is to discuss this with your Health Care Provider. He/she will be able to tell you exactly what you can expect and what would be the best fit for you. What's really nice about the pill is you will pretty much know when you are getting your period. It's nice to plan vacations and fun time around knowing exactly when you will be out of commission. Some bc controls acne, weight gain, appetite, pms etc...
Wouldn't it be nice to just have sex in a relaxed frame of mind with no interuptions? The condom could break, it could be expired, to big, to small, taken off wrong, leakage, loosing it in there. Just to pop a pill everyday at the same time and enjoy yourself would be worth it to me anyway. It won't hurt to try it and if you change your mind you can always stop taking them and use a different method of bc. Idk, think about it. It is stressful enough contemplating planning to loose your virginity to that special person, you really don't need the threat of pregnancy hanging over first time experience. :-D
hello bbfeet,
very kind of you for detailed suggestions and guidence. i would surely get back to this when we finally marry :-)
thanks once again
Take care
very kind of you for detailed suggestions and guidence. i would surely get back to this when we finally marry :-)
thanks once again
Take care
hello again bbfeet,
i am going to take ur help once agian , and this time i just want to make sure that having periods after having sex <not intercourse/penetration> means i am out of risk of being pregnant ?
hope to hear from you soon
Regards
i am going to take ur help once agian , and this time i just want to make sure that having periods after having sex <not intercourse/penetration> means i am out of risk of being pregnant ?
hope to hear from you soon
Regards